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Family Violence Healing, three keys to healing parental alienation by Dr. Jeanne King.
When children go away to college and get away from who and what, the controlling family members want them to be a window of themselves. What they discover is their essence. Now here is the gem. That essence is the composite of their formative years. If you are in their lives during this time good chance you can slip back in and they can be in yours.
Three keys to healing parental alienation
They are some key things you would want to do and things you will best avoiding in order to rekindle your relationship with your children if you are an a strange parent.
1. Focus on what you have, and what you have with them. Not on what you have, or what you missed. To help you maintain this focus, find points of shared sweet sentiment and build out from here.
2. Trust. They do not need to understand all of the elements surrounding your absence, to feel their love for you and yours for them. It is already there. Always know, the so called elements of your story must be digested as they can be assimilated and not a moment before.
3. Do not expect them to give you back what you lost. They cannot. They do not hold what you have lost as they lost it too
If you are hearing this, I assume that you are or no, a battered mother who rather battling the system to secure justice for yourself and your children. On this note, I live you with the following inclosing it was never about them anyway. Rather it is about you and the strength you bring to the table to adore the challenges before you.
For more healing insights about abusive relationships, visit www.domesticviolencedivorce.com. And, claim your free survivors success tips and E-insights. Dr. Jeannie King Founding Director of Partners in Prevention helps people recognize and then heal from domestic abuse at home at in court.
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