Hello this is Scott Paterson with another Dating and Attracting Podcast and Videocast from ChickMagnet101.com, the site where you can get a free E-book on 50 Tips to Attract Women. In today’s lesson, I am going to talk about five simple ways to turn your friend into your girl friend. Let us get started. Be honest. Are you one of these guys who secretly wants a girl who is your friend? She is attractive, intelligent, and you feel great whenever you are around her but she only likes you like a friend. Well if you have these feelings then you are not alone. In fact there are many guys who want to go from being friends with a female to something more physical, perhaps even leading to a relationship. However, most women brush off advances from their guy friends because they have grown comfortable with the friendship and don’t want to jeopardize it. The good news is there is a step by step system where you can finally turn that female friend into your girlfriend. Now I have to warn you, some of these techniques are a little intense. So if you are not a brave person, then I recommend you to listen no further. But if you are tired of watching other guys hang out with the guys you secretly like, then I recommend you to implement this five step system.
Step one: Don’t be a friend when you first meet a woman. The first step is to never become friends with a woman. Instead of acting like a woman’s buddy when you first meet her, you should act like a guy she would want to date. In other words, there are certain things that women observe that help them place guys into either the friend category or the boyfriend category. I will give you a hint. If you are always there for her, you treat her with kindness and respect then you will probably end up in the friend category. In order to prevent that, you should act in an aggressive and sexual manner from the moment you meet a woman. A message of what, act like the alpha male that are friends that she would not want to be with.
Step two: Remove yourself from her. Now if you are already in a situation where you are just friends and you are going to have to do something dramatic. You have to stop hanging out with her. This means you stop calling her, e-mailing her, and hanging out. Do everything you can to remove yourself from the friendship. While it is important to never be a jerk to a woman, you have to become a really busy guy who does not have much time to hangout. You can return her calls and messages but make sure you do it over a course or a couple of days. Bottom line is you should stop being the guy who is always there for her.
Step three: Date other women. When you stop talking with this girl, you have to date other women. In order for the system to work, you should make a decision about your friend. Either you can decide to stay friends or continue working towards making her your girlfriend. By dating other women, you will start to develop a more confident attitude about women. In essence, you will sort to see how she compares with other women.
Step four: Contact her after a period of not talking. Once you have dated different women for a couple of months, you should make a decision about your female friend. You can either choose to be friends or try to develop a relationship. If you want to make your friendship more physical then you should contact her. Now, initially talk to her and make sure you speak to her like a potential dating partner and not like a friend. In other words don’t be all buddy-buddy with her. Instead, act in a way that a guy would act, that she wants to date.
Step five: Treat her like a woman. Now that you are talking to her again, start behaving in a way that will make her attracted to you. Ask her on dates and flirt with her and treat her like a woman. The more you can act like a man, the more she will see you in a new light.
Turning friend into a girlfriend is a hard thing to do. Women are naturally inclined to categorize men into their friend or boyfriend category. So it is up to you to make a dramatic turn around to transform yourself into the kind of guy she will want to date. While these five steps are pretty extreme, they can be your best solution for transforming a casual friendship into a relationship. And if you want to know more, I provide 50 tips for meeting, attracting, dating, and seducing women in my free E-Book Attraction Mastery and you can find this at ChichMagnet101.com. Until next time this has been Scott Paterson, thank you.
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