A Guide to Sexual Positions

A Guide to Sexual Positions Hi! I'm Ducky Doolitlle and today, we are talking about sex positions, specifically for intercourse. Now our brains are wired to find the simplest and easiest way to get anything done, and this is true for sex as well. But once you find the sex position that works for you, then your brain will start to tell you, "Oh, Jesus is boring!" and you find yourself in a rot. And we are here to keep you out of that rot. So, a great sex position no matter how you come to it is always about how comfortable it is for your body and your partner's body as well. So here at Cherry TV, we studied all the sex positions we could possibly find, and finally boiled down to about five basic positions and then variations based on those positions. So we are going to outline those variations today. Now, the first position is missionary or face to face, this is generally the go to ,position to everybody but there are so many subtle ways to just switch it up a little bit. So sometimes it gets our bad wrapping, it really does not deserve it because it does give us more skin to skin contact, chest to chest, face to face, you can get eye contact, you can do a lot of making out, and nibbling during this position in particular, and you can switch it up. Like most often, we tend to wrap our legs around our partners and even the simple act of sending your legs straight out in either direction, changes the tension in your muscles all the way up in to your pelvis, or you can bring your legs up and put them up on to your partners shoulders, and that tips your pelvis up, giving you more direct penis to G spot sensation. If that is hard for your body, you can always slip a pillow under your butt and lift your pelvis up in the same position in that sort of way. Just for linguistic clarity, I like to point out that when I talk about sex positions, my language is usually giver-receiver. Now the person with the penis is the person giving in this scenario, and the person on the receiving end of that penis is the one receiving. Because not all couples have a penis, and some people choice to strap their cock on, and I want to make that we are talking to everyone as we talk about positions for intercourse. So, the second position that is really powerful is a variation on that, but we sort of flipped it. So the giver is on the bottom, and the receiver is on top, sort of a cow girl, sort of ride on pony position. Generally, when I talk to people about this particular position, I find that women get their orgasm when they lean forward so they are chest to chest and face to face with their partner, and half sort of a sliding back and fort motion. Whereas the person receiving that, that sliding back motion does not always feel very good, and they like it when the person on top sits straight up and does that sort of bouncy movement up and down. There’s something to be said for both things, I mean it is great to lean over and take your orgasm at times. And it also good to sit up and show yourself a little bit because you are beautiful and you are especially beautiful in this position, something that a lot of women do not realize because we are looking down at our bodies. Is that the view looking up at our bodies is really supreme like everybody's body no matter how big or small your breast may be, your boobs looks fantastic from that underneath view. So every now and then, it is a really good idea just to shake your hair out and just really give it to him. It is so sexy, so you know, a little give, a little receive, a little forward, a little backward, whatever gets you off, you know, it gets them off too. Try to make it come together. Now the third position is also a very popular one. It is from behind, and it also called doggie style. And in this position, the receiver is on all fours on the bed, and the giver is behind entering from behind and they could be standing on the floor or they could be kneeling on the bed, or whatever they need to do to sort of lying their body parts up and make it work. Now this is a really great position because it gives us that consistent rhythmic thrusting motion that a lot of us need to orgasm during intercourse. It also leaves our hands free to do other things like reach down and touch yourself, reach around and touch your partner, you could hold the sex toy up against your body, whatever feels good during this position is great. As some people say, doggie style is a position that makes it so that penetration is a little bit too deep and if that is the case for you, you can always lean forward so that your belly is on the bed and they are entering you from behind. But you butt and thighs give a little bit of buffer or cushion in this position. So everybody feels great but the penetration is not too deep for you body. Now, the fourth basic position is side by side. And this could be done either spooning, so your back is to their chest or can be done facing each other. But of you have side of your body that is on the bed and it can be a really relaxing, comfortable, very intimate way to have sex. Again, it lets your free for exploring nipples, clits or thighs, or wherever you want to go within that sex play. But it can be hard in this position to get that consistent rhythmic thrusting that we want, but it is a great way to wake your partner up with a little morning sex. Now, the fifth position is standing. And standing is a sexual position that is easiest if you are of a similar height. Now me, I am very short so I do not do a lot of standing position. It is a little bit theoretical in my book, but it is the kind of position you see in the jeans commercial when everybody is all heated up and tearing off each others clothes and they have sex up against the wall. And they could be with the receivers back against the wall, or turn around like hands up against the wall, which ever way is most comfortable for you. And if your height is similar, you may just need to throw on a pair of stilettos and totally even things up. It can be a really hot, hot position as well. All of these positions can be adjusted to meet your body needs. Some of us are bigger, some of us are smaller, some of us have injuries or different levels of abilities so adjust them according to your needs. You can add a new dimension to any of these basic positions but just a subtle change of pushing your butt out, or spinning your hips forward. Sex is really about the subtleties and see what you can do to change up your sex position just a little bit. It may make you a huge difference. And again, any position that is comfortable for your body and your partner's body is going to take you there. It is going to make it possible for you to get that consistent rhythmic thrusting. My name is Ducky Doolittle; you are watching Cherry TV.com’s fresh advice. Log on to see what other episodes we may have on sex positions.