Francisco: Hi! This is Francisco Bujan from vitalcoaching.com and I am here back with Phoebe, very exciting girl. She already give you lots of tips from how to date and how specially not to date guys if you are in fear and this very when you know how you approach her she will say no she is going to go out with you. So, you need to come up with a very high level of confidence and manners that is what we learn so far.
Manners are very important. What is have been for you experiences that you thought we really devastating really, really bad. What the guys doing in the dates that you would think well you notice it was terrible.
Female: Well, I used my experience on experience of my friends as well. But basically, these things like if a guys will take you out to dinner but you take it to McDonalds and you like or if he ask you out, and then because if the guys asked you out. In my opinion and it is obviously paying for the date because you asking me out and you get that then he is like looking for you to pay not let me your half? But or his half as well, it is like okay. Or turn it up really late just not because you know something drastic happen but just because you cannot organized his self to tenant from time hopefully tend turn it up looking like a gangster or tramp or just things like unusual like.
And you super to expect me to have a second date with you. It just, it is just little beat listening that guys just look cover with I do not what panic the room because you would think you stop the game with it. It you take the girls out for the first time. You have to put your best look forward but a lot of guys do not, then they have no interesting conversations to talk about and the eyes are glaze nobody, he is not thinking what it from the television. Did he sleep at the video that is bad signs for me? But then and not to alive that.
Francisco: Yes, what are the conversation what you would find really boring. I mean what are things you really do not want to talk about in your first date.
Female: Probably, ex-girlfriends that is a weird anyway.
Francisco: So, avoid ex-girlfriend.
Female: Yes, I am quite implicit on mind and I love a political debate. But when a guys not to go any soap walk when he talk, even into turning into a principal broadcast. I am just like, hope you do not do you know and see we are coming from we have got need to go and through these right now on the dates all thing. That is all stuff. And we miss on complaining about I do not know, just things like he can maybe have a ravish job, he can mention job’s ravish but when they start to go into all the moaning and winding about it and all these stuff. And then when a guys start to talk about the things that you does not like him then we may be just stop thank you the better the woman hates it. I mean it is like looking for the exit stuff like that simple and over it.
Francisco: Yes, yes, I see it. What about the sex? Will have sex on your first date I mean you think it is appropriate, you think what is your general attitude with guys because that way it will save them from into rejected maybe in the first date. What you are to do.
Female: For me, personal behind the underlying critic because I have taught like more but connection of that blood you know. If your plan is in the right position and we light like so make connection maybe, but I am quite platonic umbilical to nice man. That this is not going to happen on the first date because to be honest, even if I really, really like the guys prefers to wait a few days because you know you just going to wait to this kind of things. This is not quite emotions into it. And because that is the aim of quite law of moon of got, but it probably I do not want to see him again.
Francisco: Was that your experience, that the once a guys, once you sleep with the guy one time you have sex with him that he disappears?
Female: No, not mine personally, but I know it happens a lot of people but you do find that there are more interested before thanks them afterwards depending that they just more sustentative more linking oh yes, or do thing be more and stuff woman in love is how the attention there of the more sexy love with him.
Francisco: Did you ever been in a situation where you have dating a guy who is already committed, I mean he did maybe lie to you or did you still go out with him and what was your impression about that.
Female: That is been yet is depends it still an open up about slow of my commitment to them. Because some guys for example but I have sex with anyone I might go and date with them but not having sex as long as I am not having sex and that is okay, because that is best things to me. But I know, if you are on date with some guys when you have a suspicions, that there is somebody else that have in background you saw or tell, because you know just the way they are. Because some type of guys will always about five girls on the go. Whoever but nicely I have not come across with guys really who is all like full on sheet as cleanses avoids that anyway. But you can always get call out still anyway even if the guy seems joining you in but I been in lucky.
Francisco: That is not nice. Yes, okay. Well, that is it for these five minutes. Thanks again, and we will come back there is for more. For guys, if you are listening to that the link is at vitalcoaching.com/datingforman.htm. Take care for now and bye, bye.
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