Be on Top During Sex in the Cowgirl Position

Juicy Talk for Women Cherry TV.com Cherry Dish In this episode, the women talk about what they like about being on top. Female: You're saying that you don’t like it as much because he tries to take control. Tells us a little bit more about like what's going on there? I don’t know, you have to ask them, I'm always like, “What are you doing?” Female: No, because I feel like–some of it, I've gotten over not feeling comfortable because they're seeing really all of you and I actually like that now because you can lean down and you're–and its very intimate and nice but then they will try to–I think people have this thing about sex where you don’t want to feel like a dead fish and you don’t want to feel like you're participating and not like you're just lying there. So, sometimes when you're on top, I think the guys have the same feeling that they should be and active part of it. But its harder for me if I'm straddling you on top and you're trying to move your hips and I'm trying to move my hips, sometimes we’re not moving in the same way and I think that–you know, that’s one of the things I like about missionary is because you're receiving so you can have a better way of like kind of catching me. But when they're not holding and they're just trying to like move their hips and its working against each other. But I like the holding of the– put some good music on. Female: You know the bouncing is what you have to do. Sort of establish that rhythm together and I think that that’s just not what's happening. It’s if you're not establishing the rhythm. Female: You're not jumping. Female: I find that usually when the guy underneath is moving, usually it’s great because it’s like, “Okay, like I said I don’t like–lets work.” Its nice to have someone else working with me, you know. Female: You need to get those straps for your feet so you don’t have to use any muscle application in the air. Female: Its not that I'm not physically fit, I just you know, I want to just be experiencing, you know, the joy, the orgasm, I just want to be there. I don’t want it like my thigh is burning. Female: Oh, I do hate that when you're bouncing your thighs soon as they start to hurt. Female: Now do you guys find the–being on top is a good way to orgasm? And are you manually stimulating yourself? Female: Usually, also it’s good if not the biggest dick you’ve ever worked with. Female: Well, you can bend back and you can hit the– Female: It’s also good when he is just, “Okay.” Like when he is not–its like, alright, you get on your back, I’ll just– Female: If it’s not hard all the way. Female: If that’s really easy to get it in? Female: Yeah! Female: Get it go around. It’s a good starter if he is not all the way. Female: Yeah! The sizes are prone with me being on top too that’s why think being backwards is better for me because I can take it in because he is bigger but then like it bothers me when I'm facing him. Female: Because it’s hitting your cervix too much, the other way. When you're on top do you ever do basically more of the lean forward on top? Female: I like his knees to be up and then that way you can kind of lean forward and move your pelvis. That’s always nice. Female: And what motion are you using, are you doing more of an up and down or more of a back and forth? Female: I'm doing more of an up and down usually. And usually I only use one leg to support because I like to have my knee down but then I think–I was talking with someone else about, just you know, using both knees and I tried it and I was like, “Oh, this actually is alright.” But I kind of also do like having one knee and just, I don’t know, for some reason, I'm able to get both the back and forth and up and down like its more like that because its like you know, like if you're in a staggered position. Female: But that’s the motion you want to try and get and it seems hard, and is hard to do. Female: When you're leaning forward, do you ever like also rest your hands on the bed in that way? Female: Oh! Yeah! Female: And any kissing? Female: Sometimes there is more kissing when I'm on top and leaning forward because then I can like kiss his chest or kiss you know, his shoulders or parts of his face and then you can rest elbows like on his chest and there's more kind of like rubbing of your breast on him. Female: Usually for me there's less kissing because it’s like I'm doing him in the zone. It’s like we’re on the treadmill at the gym you know. Female: And I don’t think the guys like it when you're leaning over, I mean, they enjoyed it all but I think that they would prefer that you're sitting up so they can watch you and like watch your breast move and watch everything as opposed to when you're right close in their face and then they're kind of suffocated and totally submissive. I think that it’s better if you're sitting up, you know, getting good rhythm. Female: I hate leaning down and then I have really long hair, so your hair is all over the face. Female: Exactly. Female: I like it when they reach out and grab it and hold to that.