Hi! My name is Francisco Bujan form vitalcoaching.com and I am the author of How to get your power back after she breaks up. This is an ebook that is available on vitalcoaching.com and it is with you what I want to do is cover a little bit what goes around the break up challenge. Really, what this is about so that you can understand a little bit of the dynamics.
Now if you want to get this material, the full extent of this material which includes videos, audios, and an ebook, and much more. You can go directly to vitalcoaching.com/breakupforman.htm. Everything you need is right there.
Now, keep watching especially if you are in the break up situation. Right now or if you know somebody who is in a break up, here is a series of tips that I think can really power this situation. Give you back the control seat.
Here is what you must know, to solve a break up challenge or to get out of the breakup zone as soon as possible, you need three things.
The first thing that you need is to understand the Power Dynamics involved in this breakup situation.
Most guys who are in the breakup situation, we simply try to emotionally respond to what is happening without actually having a Battle Plan. But the first step is really to understand what is going on in terms of dynamic, in terms of Power Dynamics really.
What is the deal with your ex? What is really the kind of dynamics which are happening behind the scene because this is actually the architecture which is generating that the emotions and triggering what you feel right now. So, you have to understand the call of dynamics and this is exactly what I go in depth in my breakup material.
The second thing that you need is a Battle Plan. It is really a set of strategies. If you simply seat back and respond to whatever is happening, most of the times, your emotional response to this breakup situation is not going to lead you to taking the right action.
Why? Because, you have not been warned once. It is a situation that you have not been in before. It is a crisis situation because your life is under attack and you will simply respond to the triggers that come to you.
We thought having really a clear picture of where you are going or what he is on the longer term plan or the long term vision. Sometimes you do not have an idea, you know you will have the feeling that of course, the long term plan or the long term idea is to get over your ex. But, in the meantime, you are going to be taken by the waves of your emotions right and left.
Dust around really in this kind of breakup battle, we thought really having a clear strategy and you do not engage into a battle without a clear strategy, we thought a clear Battle Plan because this is the recipe for failure right?
If you want to win, you need to have a solid strategy, a solid Battle Plans so that it takes you from where you are from this breakup zone area to a place of victory, to a place of clarity, to a place where you could start really embracing a future or what comes next.
So we have two elements, the first one is Power Dynamics, understanding them. The second one is having a solid Battle Plan, and the third step that you need is to take consistent positive action to put in place this Battle Plan or this battle strategies.
If you simply read the material but do not do anything about it, of course, it is going to work in your mind and start having a positive impact. But, what you need to do the next is to start taking consistent action.
Now understanding the Power Dynamics relatively easy, understanding the strategies is also with what is easy because I give you the whole plan and we need the whole battle strategy to win this challenge. What is a bit more challenging is taking consistent action. This is where you need consistency, you need to be focuses, you need to be actually follow up on the Battle Plan, follow up on the battle strategy.
So, this follow up usually takes about 30 days. Within 30 days, you can really get probably 80% /90 % of your power back and this is what we focused on. So, if you like what I am saying right now and if you think that this is really for you or if you have a friend who is trapped within this breakup zone, go and send them to my site.
I give you the link again, this is vitalcoaching.com/breakupformen.htm.
Everything you need is right there.
Take care and have a great day!
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