Ask Dan & Jennifer
Sex, Love and Dating Advice
Extreme Sex Ed
Jennifer: Okay, so we’ve all heard the Britney Spears’ song “3”. But how many of you have actually stopped to think about what they’re actually talking about in that song. You know either Britney’s teaching us to count to 3 or may be she’s talking about threesomes. And according to Britney’s song, “Hey it’s cool. It’s the new in thing”. That’s what we’re here to talk about today.
Dan: So we’re wondering how many people had actually tried threesome or a foursome? So we actually ran a poll on our website AskDanandJennifer.com and the question was this, would you try a threesome or a foursome? Get this, over 7500 people have already answered, and the answers are a little surprising. Check this out, 32%, 32 said definitely yes. 40% said maybe, but with the right people, with the right friends.
Jennifer: That’s the answer I hear the most.
Dan: Yes and that’s pretty interesting because that’s a lot of percentage points. Now if you haven’t taken the poll yet, you should go ahead and check it out. It’s at AskDanandJennifer.com, if you look at the top, there’s a link for polls and quizzes.
Jennifer: Okay! So here are our thoughts on threesomes, okay. It’s a great way to spice up your sex life, with a few caveat, okay, it’s not the right thing for everyone. First of all, you don’t have to be, we’re going to assume you’re a couple, it’s a little different when you’re all single and you’re all just kind of having a good time. That’s a little bit different, but assuming you’re a couple and you want to bring a third person in, great idea assuming, you both want it and you know—
Dan: That’s the big one.
Jennifer: Yes, you both want it and you got to have some ground rules okay. Understand, what’s okay and what’s not okay, you know. What can you do? What can the third person do, you got to talk about this stuff before hand.
Dan: Yes, absolutely. You don’t want your wife or girlfriend being—feeling unwanted or undesired because you got your eyes on the other girl. And that’s obviously going to be a big concern for her, so you got to make sure that that’s okay.
Jennifer: Yes.
Dan: And taken cared of.
Jennifer: Oh! And make sure that the third person understands those ground rules as well.
Dan: Yes, absolutely.
Jennifer: Okay, so here’s the question, “Are threesomes the new in?” Would you try a three some? Have you, you know, what do you with the right group of friends? Leave a comment, let us know.
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