Hey, you know you know what; I’m going to assume if you’re listening to this you have actually used a computer before and I bet you’re a lot like me. You probably think that typing is a huge pain the ass. Do you know how the keys got laid out in the configuration you got on your computers keyboard? Way back in the early 1900’s women everywhere are learning this new school of being a typist on the old fashioned typewriters but one thing that kept happening that they didn’t foresee was that this women got extremely fast. I mean they were really fast typist.
You know when that’s all you got to do all day long, you can’t help but get pretty good at it right. The problem was that these women were so fast they they’re jamming up the typewriters when they’re typing. The mechanical parts simply could not work that fast, so what they did do about it? Did they improve the design of the typewriters? No, the typewriters manufacturers hired someone to come up with the layout for the keyboard that would slow the women down so that they wouldn’t jam them up anymore. This is a true story; its pretty ridiculous isn’t it?
That’s how we got this keyboard layout, that’s how you get the cordy layout of the keys. This is the hardest combination for a person to type on so it slows you down. Remember this story because I’m going to come back to it, here’s another story that should hit home for you. Did you ever hear the saying that a man should spend two months salary on his wife’s diamond ring? Did you know that before the 1940’s women didn’t get diamonds on their wedding rings, now they did? They would just get a wedding band of some kind; it wasn’t until the diamond company “The Beau’s” started paying film studios to feature scenes with women wearing diamond wedding rings that this new belief took hold.
They manufactured this new rule, this new belief system out of thin air. “The Beau’s” actually manipulated culture for the last 70 years so that men now feel they have to adorn their women with a trophy diamond that shows her how much she loves her right and it costs him two months of his salary. Sorry, I’m a romantic at heart but I’m a cynic when it comes to the whole buying a woman love stuff. In my opinion if you’re spending more time and energy just satisfying your wife to be desired to keep up with other women, then you might want to put a reality check on your relationship.
After all the most expensive diamond can still be worn as she’s driving away with half your stuff. Its no guarantee man, anyway, I tell you these stories for a purpose, I’m going to teach you two priceless alpha rules today. You’ve probably already figured them both out by now but here is what we can learn from these two stories. The first is the rule of the tied elephant. When an elephant is very young, it’s tied up using a fairly thin piece of rope. The baby elephant can’t break it so it becomes used to staying where it’s tied. When that same elephant is full grown, it’s able to break that rope that is about no effort at all, I mean elephants, come on man they’re huge but it never does. Because it grew up thinking that, the thin rope was too strong for it. Just like typist today are limited by the awkward layout of the keyboard. Unfortunately, this is also how most guys learn their attraction and seduction skills.
Were limited to using the same thin rope techniques that really are inadequate but you know what, that’s why were all tied. By art, flowers and cards, flatterer. In today’s world, it’s not politically correct to show men the same strategies that women used on us all the time. If we use them, if guys use them were not being genuine, well I’m here to show you how to break that thin rope and let your real power out. I want to show you how to reconfigure your keyboards so that you can whiz past every guy out there.
Now the second rule I want to teach you is the rule of the unchallenged belief. Until I told you about that two-month rule for buying an engagement ring, I bet you thought that was something that has done throughout history right. Like there is some ancient tradition of giving a woman a precious stone? Hey, I didn’t even know about it until a couple of years ago and yet we never even questioned it. We might have thought it was a BS excuse to impress a woman but we didn’t question it because that’s what everyone else is doing. Now think about it, how many other beliefs are we holding that limit us, how many other beliefs do we have that go unchallenged.
When it comes to women, there are many that we need to question. There are many of these beliefs that we need to break apart and there are many that we need to just throw away. Now here’s a really short exercise that’s going to review some unbelievable dividends in your alpha attitude. Take two minutes to write down all the things that you believe about women. Now I will give you a couple of examples here, here’s one. Women want men with power and money or women are completely emotional and irrational or women don’t like it when men show their interest in them. I bet you’ve got a ton of them, I know I do. Just write them all down and take a minute to look at them in the cold hard light of reality. I mean really, just look at the words you wrote down and ask yourself if each of those of beliefs is helping you or hurting you. And then you have to decide how you want to deal with it.
The reality is that most of the things that we believe about women and the things that we believe that women believe are simply not true or they don’t matter when you’re behaving like the alpha of the pack. The fact is that reality distorts around any sufficiently strong belief system. You can kind of think of this as a law of physics for the attraction world, just like gravity works right. A sufficiently massive enough object like the earth can hold into the moon and keep it in its pole. Well the reality is that if your reality is strong enough, she’s going to buy into it. She’s going to be pulled into orbit around you. The only thing you have to do is make your reality stronger than hers, that’s the trick of it all and this requires iron clad inner game.
What is inner game? Well inner game is your sense of confidence as your sense of self-esteem and personal power that allows you to go out and do the things that you need to do. In other words if I was going to enter a martial arts tournament for whatever reason, I have better have a good strong belief system in my ability to perform martial arts right? I should have at least trained a little bit in it. If I haven’t trained in it a little bit, I assure, as heck better know how to BS my way through it right? But let’s face it, that’s a tough one to BS your way through. The reality is though you can do it. A friend of mine who is a martial arts teacher actually gave somebody a few different moves with a bow staff and told him, “okay, you’re going to compete with this and you’re not even going to know what the form is. You’re just going to do a lot of motions, your going to make a lot of loud noises, make it really look powerful and let’s see what happens.”
You know what; the guy took first place because his belief system was so strong in everything he was doing that the judges bought it. They totally bought it, well that’s all you need, that’s what I figured out after so many years of figuring out all this strategies and attraction strategies and seduction strategies was it wasn’t exactly what I was doing. It was the belief that I had behind each one of them, so that’s what I want to show you and I want you to know how to get that kind of killer inner game. I want to show you the new technologies of psychology that will show you how to conquer your own shyness, get rid of your own nervousness, your fears, your anxieties with women.
These are the secrets to build bulletproof self-confidence and emotional self-control around women. These are my secret martial arts techniques to basically rebuild your ultimate inner game. I want you to read the article that I wrote on this over at innergame.carlosXuma.com. That’s innergame.carlosXuma.com, no www in front of that, just innergame.carlosXuma.com. Go read my article on what ultimate inner game is and what it lets you in the long run in terms of your own self-esteem, your self-confidence and how this one element is the key stone. The absolute cornerstone of the foundation of your ultimate game with women, again this is Carlos Xuma from innergame.carlosXuma.com. I’ll be talking to you again soon this is CX out.
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