Dealing with Paternal Emotions

Chris Brooks: We’re talking about all the things about fatherhood. The best way for me is going to be in the morning. The first time in the morning, when the baby comes out and then with the -- into the bed and it’s just so smiling, just doesn’t stop smiling obviously, when he is looking at me. I used one another like it’s he is just -- which one he find out -- location done I don’t get it. Oh, yeah but it 8o clock in the morning so it doesn’t matter. Male Speaker: This is for where you talks whether -- Damion Queva: Is -- also the fact that going back to almost back because I kind of crave that -- if we given them so, I’ve remember you know tomorrow taken up that this room on my chest just been able to pouch that and I could lay there for hours without just like that. I felt like I -- I just was so happy we were been and because all those times so much -- and that was all connect I think that’s when we might all kind of ultimate connection for a first thing in the morning as well. Kevin Day: I’m sorry I don’t think, I become a real dad to use about to -- I didn’t really think myself as a popper father not just because I wasn’t there for a there longer time. Now she is suppose to having his breastfeed but because I felt my roll was limited and so Ally was the nurture of the provider that was lack of love and I do everything I could and I was -- I didn’t really feel like a proper dad, slightly older to them I could take more, have more influence on how he was developing sort of thing. Its people say what’s up with -- you can’t begin to describe it, there is so many miles. We just love each others company because he is such a good child, it’s such an pretty good company out I just when she is not there and I just look forward to the day so we had just on a weekend in North, just three of us because it develops my parents but just as times and just three of us in a little hotel room or -- it is fantastic and you know for you like it and I have been I have done a lot of stuff and also happy experiences I’m lucky -- I’m having a little more -- of that. Just four of there not being there, so that the anyway, its is well think it how awfully would be if he was in there so I just missing, I went even known -- Jonathan Wills: Talked about us through the happiest things I mean bizarrely for me and I did what it is what happens -- but actually that the happiest thing is almost when I’m crying with because actually I could I’m not kind of the it -- for the first couple of years they went to school, I couldn’t go into it and I send -- I obviously standing on my cameras -- tears, and actually he got through the stage were almost Kevin Day: What do you first do as a parent, just brought rough self and really lovely -- we send them in you’ll cry -- that’s all about so if you will when I thought -- but you can’t because the difference is it’s an only child. I just wonder we talk about every children not enough -- I mean strain but I think of all kind of imagine share that love I can’t imagine I’ve been have the second child and the -- you obviously do and worried about that -- Chris Brooks: For Harry is really he was born six months ago and it was right because the love of -- was so immense and say when it is go place and things upon I was worried about that and then when Harry was born I don’t why it just normal. Jonathan Wills: It’s absolutely -- it’s not the same as always. You have a different obviously anyway for mine of three girls I have a different -- I love them all as much but it’s a very different and you know we went to the school somebody with the when she was just born -- and she was just seeing and sitting my knee and the headmaster have heard that he said birthday but I was all in control and everything and they probably that and we go to birthday as well where it is -- Kevin Day: Really it’s sounds okay, most emotional and I have an emotional -- I did sense is when is when you see them trying really not to do something, when you just -- Damion Queva: And I’m really fine for you that and I am trying from -- Kevin Day: Its great, they even if struggling with different way he is going to read something and little early just -- Damion Queva: That’s why this is really good for meant to sit down and hope of really watching this program that’s do feel like tremendous -- you have a huge amount of emotion I don’t think believe that and anyone that dance do, oh men do want children because I think sometimes -- I mean we are very emotional, or very proud of son. My most during the days was off. Kevin Day: Actually everything is well, I’m proud of that I -- we’re all brought up together I get so proud of them we’re all parents now I gets so proud of them one of them it’s we use have about it we’ll share their emotional -- and I remember the mistake that I’m -- growing up and just think of then being parents should -- I just haven’t go a look at no maturing as men and I said out the room much noise and then because of our kids not look, I look at them with a -- feel proud of them, because the way that the children change after way the depths take it on board and one of them particular he is got three girls you think ten years ago you -- you should been allowed, I mean just to watch this, just astonishing just to watch them as a family, just put small on the face if the world takes -- in place with them Damion Queva: We have been talking earlier I mean, I just my little daughter started as secondary school last Monday and she was dressing tubbing the uniform and she is liked, she is exactly -- and she is like five -- and looked on her and she is developing and going through puberty and everything and I suddenly just the first day she came back and she was still in the -- dressed much as little town just so proud. So proud that I was I good -- what you just said I was proud of myself for the first time I said something that I have and I said it myself for long I have an 11 year old daughter. I couldn’t believe it how could I have -- all I have a 11 years old daughter, I can’t believe, she is a major teen and she is like 5 foot 4 inches and practically a woman and I’m going to have short gun with this because I tell you she is going to be find them off and I was just life should beautiful and she is really turning into a woman. Chris Brooks: Don’t worry about that -- boyfriend thing Kevin Day: Friend of mine his daughter was 14 and she only just realize that friend will come and the new boy friends, they wouldn’t never stay more than five minutes and she only just find out because when they came in associating with those -- it’s a terrific causes that’s have a very emotional and dramatic areas and for she all parents and daughters -- Damion Queva: I think this we know what we would like could, they I know what it could be in and it’s kind of -- mean it kind of I am of the opinion now I am going to so just kind of educating in the way that I am not every kind of children from -- and I say though this is what you can expect you got might be wrong Jonathan Wills: -- Damion Queva: That’s going to be the out looking pain and I am go and let’s bring your body yeah -- she does talk when though you know I’m not really -- she wants to keep away. Kevin Day: With such -- is going to know far as a boy -- he is going to be lad and he loves for you don’t want to be, that kind of what going I think which is raised the glass to say -- Chris Brooks: Well guys, I think we should raise the glass -- Kevin Day: Thanks very much. Chris Brooks: Cheers.