Don't Let Bad Emotions keep you from Rockin it!

Hey what is up this is Jared Hill and I just had another thing that I wanted to talk about and it has to do with you and what is on the inside of your head and how it helps or hurts your performance in what it is that you do in this business world or in this market.

There is this quote that I read in a book called “Seed of the Soul” that says “positive emotions empower, negative emotions disempowered.” And that is very strong to me and it speaks really deeply to me because there had been times when I have kind of gotten all messed up in the funk of what are the people are doing and just saying like okay, there is now ay I can compete with that. That like guy is just too good or you know better personality or whatever blah, blah, blah, just stupid stuff that you let yourself believed and those thoughts disempowering you. They disarm your ability to actually go out there and rock it. I mean seriously, when you go -- if you have you gone to conferences or anything like that and you get all pumped up because you are around so many people who are passionate just like you are in everything and you know like okay you have some new ideas and you want to come back you know to your hometown and plug them in and start producing business, you get all excited and it is great when you are all pumped up. But that fades away because you start to let other things get in there and start to funk you up a little bit and you got to get over that. You have to stop with the negative because negative affects us and it is in business and it is in everything else and I know you know that, we all know that negative emotions disempowering and so thinking in a negative fashion were responding to things that happened in a negative fashion, all that does is mess you up and hurts the fact that you are able to go out there and perform the way that you know you are able to go out there and perform because you can rock your industry in your area or worldwide I do not know.

I mean who knows what your core market is or what your size of the market is. For me you know, wedding photographer which is what I specialize in, of course you know I want to do a lot of weddings locally but I mean if somebody wanted to hire me to go nationwide, that could be my market too. But there are a lot of other photographers out there that do that as well and so you know I do not know. I can let that mess me up. I could let that get me down because there is some people out there that are just really amazing, and I mean I think my work is really amazing too, but I can let that mess me up and I could let that get me down and say “oh I will just leave it up to them. I would not mess with trying to go you know doing destination weddings or something like that. I do not want to do that because there are some guys out there that are just totally rock it”. Well, I can totally rock it too and I just have to have the right attitude to be able to do that because that is how those guys were able to get those types of clients by having the right attitude, to get out there and say “okay, I am going to rock it no matter where I am at. I do not care if I am in Modesto which is where I am at Modesto, California or if somebody calls me from New Hampshire or whatever and wants me to shoot a wedding. I do not care. I am going to rock it regardless of where I am at, and that is the attitude that you have to have.” And your business, whatever you do whatever people you are putting in front of you, you need to rock it. You need to let them know that you have what it takes because if you show negative emotion, people are going to read that and they are going to see negative emotion as your inability to deliver for them.

Positive attitude relates a positive emotion and they are going to be able to trust in you because we all trust in people that are passionate about what they do. That is what we want. When we want product or service, we want to be getting that product or service from somebody who is passionate about what they do.

So, next time, you get into a situation where you just start feeling negative. F

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