Dan: The first international orgasm day or what? This is like I don't know, but you know what there are a lot of orgasm questions because nobody talks about, okay.
Jennifer: So we are talking about it.
Dan: So we are talking about it, that's what we do. G-Spot orgasm mystifies. Okay fine, you are making fun of me behind my back aren't you? No, to my side, okay.
Jennifer: Oh that doesn't scare, the next is Dan gay a question.
Dan: Can straight metro guys not embarras. Okay whatever, whatever, okay. Now, this man wants to know, my girlfriend and I make love regularly but she has a hard time having an orgasm without that clitoral stimulation, how many of you guys relate to that one?
Jennifer: Oh and then how many guys out there actually know where the women's clitoris is?
Dan: Leave a comment, leave there an intelligent comment, it can be done trust me.
Jennifer: Okay.
Dan: Okay, I always perform oral sex for her before we become more intimate, but I am always afraid that I am just leaving her unsatisfied. Oh! Man I am just not going to say anything just yet. Any tips on how I can her into letting me pleasure her some more, I just hate the idea of love making only lasting so long.
Jennifer: Oh, I thought like he wasn't making love longer.
Dan: Oh! My god I wonder if he is really a guy, wow!
Jennifer: I feel so thoughtful, this is nice because most guys don't even think about it, right?
Dan: Why were you looking at me when you said that? Oh! I mean the guy is just so thoughtful. So this whole idea of people coming together at the exact same time it's a fairly rare business okay.
Jennifer: It does happen but.
Dan: Mostly in the movies.
Jennifer: It's rare, and if you happen to be with someone that you do it every time together wow! You are lucky, count your blessings.
Dan: Yes, exactly.
Jennifer: Okay, you said you were going to do this one.
Dan: No, that's your.
Jennifer: Dan doesn't like to talk about the good stuff. Okay here is the deal okay, it's very common for women not be able to have a Vaginal orgasm, it's common. Some women can't.
Dan: What is a Vaginal orgasm dear?
Jennifer: Penetration, sex.
Dan: So an orgasm during penetration sex.
Jennifer: Search it, right.
Dan: Typically a guy gets in there, gets happy pretty quick and next.
Jennifer: And there is nothing wrong --
Dan: She is like what happen?
Jennifer: Absolutely nothing wrong with the little clitoral stimulation every time. There is nothing wrong with that we get questions all the time, that's the only way I can orgasm, be thankful you can, okay there are someone out there who can't even do it that way.
Dan: Some who have never had an orgasm, a lot actually, it's astounding.
Jennifer: Yes, but he is talking about the G-Spot.
Dan: Okay, so G-Spot.
Jennifer: My next question, how many guys actually know where the G-Spot is? I would like to here it.
Dan: Leave a comment, no seriously an intelligent comment.
Jennifer: An intelligent one.
Dan: But we want to get a feel, does anybody know where the G-Spot is?
Jennifer: My favorite description.
Dan: Go for it.
Jennifer: You kind of put your finger in there and kind of go like this okay.
Dan: Like a come here sort of gesture okay.
Jennifer: It's kind of -- you can find it.
Dan: People should know this, but they don't.
Jennifer: Yes, and we are not going to get into all those kind of details, that's about as much detail as we get into. But here's a thing okay. I don't know why she is not letting you let her finish maybe she is embarrassed, may be she is not comfortable, may be something.
Dan: I wonder if it's a baggage thing, or psychological --
Jennifer: Yes, it could be an emotional thing with her, because face it okay women are brought up to be pure, innocent and a lot of people have a lot of baggage around that.
Dan: And then lot of those people they believe that sex and enjoying sex is evil and you are going to go to hell. So it counteracts, this pureness and thing and we grow up not knowing anything about basic sex education.
Jennifer: And then -- here is a thing, here's what I will have to say on this. Is she telling me to stop one or two things is happening. One, she is getting really close to orgasm and she is afraid to let go, right or two, you are just not getting there okay.
Dan: But that will more like I just stopped already.
Jennifer: Yes.
Dan: So it's getting so hard.
Jennifer: Yes, so one of those two things is going on and if you can figure that out you will be a lot further along.
Dan: But damn, this guy tries hard, that is so cool.
Jennifer: He can still keep trying. But you guys have got to talk? Okay we say this in every video we do. You have got to talk about it, okay. Why won't she let you go longer? Try to understand it and you have got to be willing to hear it. Say look am I just not doing something right? Am I missing the mark, right? What do you like? Show me, that won't get my feelings hurt and don't.
Dan: Because I want to please you.
Jennifer: Man are so freaking sensitive, I am sorry but they get their feelings hurt so easy when it comes to this kind of stuff.
Dan: They do.
Jennifer: As a girl you have got to be really careful okay. You can't thing that you are doing it wrong or that doesn't feel good. You have got to say, well may be try this. I like this, here is what I have found.
Dan: It is so funny.
Jennifer: But you can't mix it with him.
Dan: Oh my God! Okay, okay onwards.
Jennifer: Is that all we are doing for this one?
Dan: That you know an idea.
Jennifer: I have some more gory details here but I just can't do it.
Dan: You know what look we are not doing the whole, in-depth.
Jennifer: So go on our site again, we don't do this very often. Look on our site and our resources page, we have got some great books on people who do talk about the details of G-Spot orgasms, okay. So that's just not our site.
Dan: On askdanandjennifer.com top somewhere we have a page resources look for the oral sex topic, it should be mandatory reading, get some really stuff in there.
Jennifer: Yes.
Dan: People don't know this stuff. Don't forget to tell us if you actually know where the G-Spot is, we want to know.
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