Help! My Boyfriend Wants To Be Tied Up!

Dan: It’s like two in the afternoon on a hot Texas day. I’m just like hot. Wake up! Jennifer: Okay. Dan: Okay, we’ll show up again some more. Jennifer: Next videos and question, “My boyfriend was—“ Dan: Okay, you read. I can’t believe I’m like Viony when we’re talking about bounty stuffs. Jennifer: I know, I was like ready to go. He’s yummy. Dan: Not to say anything there but anyway. Jennifer: Okay, “My boyfriend wants to be tied up, I’ve never done this. So, I need some ideas okay. Here’s the thing, I need just a couple of tamer ideas to do with my boy tonight. I’ve never played top or dominant. I like the idea. It sounds fun but I tie him up and then what?” Dan: He’s tied up, now what? All dressed up and nowhere to go. Jennifer: Okay. Our BDSM and king expert in the forums are beautiful and kind. Dan: And if you’re not in the forums, got to askdanandjennifer.com top right, we have links in the forums that’s where all this pretty shiny cards came from. We’ve thrown out these questions from the forums. Jennifer: Magically you out something on the—it pops out on the card. Dan: So, it looks magic. Okay Jennifer does it, thank God. Jennifer: Okay. Dan: You’re magical there. Jennifer: So, here’s what the—says, you—eyes. Dan: What did I just have on my foot? Jennifer: This is a step by step. Dan: Why puppy set on my foot. I am sorry guys, come back okay. Jennifer: Okay, we go. Dan: He’s so cute—that will be the other side of buddy. Jennifer: Okay. So, you—eyes, blindfold him and then tie him to the bed poster chair, gently bite him on the neck. Dan: This is what you do after you tie him. Jennifer: Yeah, this is after you tie him. You can try nibbling on his neck, you know, teasing him with oral, right. Use a feather duster. Dan: Just a little or I’m thinking. Jennifer: Yeah, someone in live show yesterday said make sure it’s a clean feather duster but you know they make special feathers just for that, tickle feathers, right. Ice cubes are a good idea. Run ice cubes up and down his body, run your hair all over up and down. And her advance tips for this right was when he’s tied up, it’s a perfect time to play with his ass. Dan: Oh no! Jennifer: Because most boys can be a little shy about that, the first time you do something like that but if he’s tied up, you know, he doesn’t have to worry about being gay or anything because he’s tied up by a hot girl. So, the homophobia thing is down a little bit. Dan: If you’re going to get tied up by a hot girl— Jennifer: Yeah, yeah but be careful with that kind of stuff. We talked about that in a lot of videos. Dan: Sometimes you may want to tie the hot girl up. Jennifer: And make sure okay, we always say make sure if you’re going to do any kind of stuff like this where the other person is tied up or gagged or something where they’re not in full control, make sure you come up with the safe word and make aura, gesture in case of—right, yeah so some way to signal that, “Okay, this is too much. I want to stop.” Dan: And stop is not a good to say forward okay. Jennifer: Yeah. Dan: You know something like— Jennifer: Stop is not a good one. Dan: Pink or butterfly or something, okay something that— Jennifer: Something that’s fleetly and related. Dan: Kitten. Jennifer: Blue sky donkey. Dan: Blue sky donkey, something like that. Jennifer: Something, okay. Dan: Something not related because a lot of the times in the head play you know. Jennifer: No don’t stop, that’s part of the play. Dan: No, don’t stop. Sometimes it’s part of the play yes. Jennifer: Okay. And also the thing I had on this right, he’s asking you to tie him up. That could mean a lot of things. Maybe that’s the only thing he can think of right. And he wants to be tied up. Maybe he just wants to be in a submissive role and he wants you to be in charge. So, there’s a lot of ways you can go with that. Dan: Yeah, you guys are just beginning down an interesting factor. Jennifer: Yeah, you can try it, you know, talking to him, very dominating, right down boy, you know— Dan: Down, lower, more time, good boy. No, seriously and you guys want more detail, send us what you can do in YouTube but if you guys more details, more whatever, you have further questions, just get in the forums and so everyone know what you guys think. Jennifer: Wait no, no. He’s cut me off. I don’t know why he’s rushing. I was not finished speaking. Dan: I thought we were finished. Jennifer: I was not finished speaking. Dan: Alright. Jennifer: Look, okay you can try all kinds of stuff like cuffs, and colors and leashes and—there’s a whole for array of toys that you can play with but the important thing is to take it slow one step at a time, okay. Don’t go too far, too fast because you may freak him out and won’t want to do anything anymore. Dan: Right, we weren’t finished. That’s a huge point, slow and that’s typically—slow and sturdy but no, that’s huge, so important. Jennifer: Just tell us what you think, do you have any suggestions, maybe a little scenario you guys could put in the comments. What would you do the first time if you’re a guy and you’ve never been tied up? What would you like to see happen? Dan: Yeah, absolutely. Let us know what you think. Jennifer: Give your comment.