Help! My Wife's Vagina Is The Wrong Shape. WTF?

[Music Playing] Jennifer: Hi! This question is from Brian in Oregon. Dear Dan and Jennifer: I am married and had an affair. Okay, I am not perfect, it has been over for a while but this is not really about that. Dan: Stake out! Jennifer: I am not sure why we need to know that then? I found over the last couple of years that the shape of my wife’s vagina is, I do not know, not right for me. I have a very hard time climaxing with her. I am reasonably certain that this is not something about me because I have not had the same problem with other women. Is there something we can do or I might doom to lack lesser sex life? Thanks, Bryan. [Music Playing] Dan: That is actually surprisingly common issue, just a mechanical not fitting quite right. Jennifer: Maybe, it is just a mismatch. Dan: And you know what they say, sometimes the car does not fit in the garage, so you know you may have to park in the alley. [Laughter] Dan: Be careful, you are driving the mud. It is a possibility. Jennifer: Did we have to go there? Dan: I assume, it is important to think. Seriously, sometimes there is a mismatch in shape and size and then you have several different options. Jennifer: Yes, you do. The first option is to work with what you have. How many different positions have you tried or is this only missionary position? Dan: Thank you for that wonderful illustrations Jennifer. I think we get to do that again. Jennifer: Sorry, but you know, there is more than missionary position okay? Dan: In the dark, cover your eyes. Jennifer: Yes, so is that the problem? Is it an angle thing, I mean there is other activities, another stories. Dan: Hundreds. Jennifer: Your hands, anal sex, oral sex, I mean there is million different ways. So hopefully, you are not defining your sex life by one position. Dan: And if you are, that is wonderful because we just talked just to get your thinking in the right direction. Jennifer: Yes. Dan: You guys have so many options. Jennifer: And the other option is sex with someone else. Whether that be through an open marriage, I do not know, it sounds like if you had an affair before the trust may not be good enough for that. But, you could try that or if this particular thing is not that important to you, more important than the relationship that you have with your wife, then, move on. It may sound harsh but if it is not working, it is not working. [Music Playing]