How Can I Get My Wife To Be More Seductive?

[Music Playing] Dan: This question is from Paul in Washington and Paul says Dear Dan and Jennifer: My wife and I are very sexually active but I am getting rather bored, not good. She wants to have sex but that seems like it is all she wants, it seems that is all she wants to do just sex. How can I get her to talk dirty and to seduce me? She seems to be to self conscious about her body and thinks that it is silly and really happens in the movie, all the seduction talking dirty stuff. Please help. [Music Playing] Dan: I swear, some of these women it is like all they want to do is jump in a sac to have sex, go for the gold and-- Jennifer: Where is the foreplay? Dan: Wham bam you know score for the home team and we are done and all over and go to sleep. Have a cigarette. Some of these girls are -- I just cannot believe it. Jennifer: This is a complete rule for us all. Dan: I am not kidding. Jennifer: This question normally comes from the women. Dan: Yes so wow! That yes, normally comes from the girls, it is very interesting. Jennifer, what can he do? How can they spice up their sex life? How do you get her talking dirty? Jennifer: Okay, first of all for woman, she has to feel comfortable, it sounds like she is feeling a little insecure or maybe she is not comfortable with their body, whatever. Dan: We not drawing any parallels on men here are we? Jennifer: No, no it is completely different. Women and the (voice overlap) just do not even work the same way, yes. Dan: The way different. Jennifer: Well, basically the whole thing is to make her feel comfortable. Try lots of different little things and I am going to pass this over to Dan because he is really good at those little things to kind a pull out the sexual beast. [Laughing] Dan: To cooks at, when we call it to cooks at-- Jennifer: The voracious slot [Laughing] Dan: [Laughing] to cooks at the voracious slot. And we mean that no one in nice as possible way. We talk about having an amazing joyous, wonderful sex life that you both enjoy, okay? All the BS aside okay? Look, you got to make her feel sexy and our two senses, our feelings is she does not really feel sexy and comfortable enough to sort of parade her out and then show her little you know to flash in your nipple now and then, she does not feel “God I will be-- Jennifer: I want Dan to leave now [Laughing] Dan: We may have to, we will be right back. No okay, you got a foster -- seduction is a very interesting thing. It is not something to happen in a 10 minute period, okay? Jennifer: You can see do a lot dance for me. Dan: Yes. Jennifer: If that is not going to work for her. Dan: Yes girl feel sexy now. You know good girl, it just does not necessarily work that way sometimes, but seriously, you have to foster this you and you want her to feel sexy? Then you are going to have to build up her sexual confidence if you will. Jennifer: Slowly. Dan: Okay, she has to feel desired by you. She has to feel that she really turns you on, that you really but we may have to take over a minute. Jennifer: Yes, yes. Dan: She has to feel that she really excites you anyway. [Laughing] Jennifer: [Laughing]. Dan: That she really excites you. You know to give you some ideas-- Jennifer: Tell her how great she looks, yes. Dan: That you know just we are talking about this is over days, weeks, months. There are a lot of things is going to happen this afternoon. Jennifer: Be patient with her. Please be patient with her, it will be well worth it on the end. Dan: It is like “boy that makes your ass look really hot”. You know little comments like this are a non going basis and make sure you are always doing the positive comments, always encouraging and fostering the sense of sexiness. Jennifer: You look really sexy in that shirt. Dan: Boy that makes your breast-- Jennifer: We will see how many times he wears that shirt. Dan: Yes boy that makes your breast look awesome. God, I would love a pick, I love those nipples. You know I mean that sound a really bad? Jennifer: We have a nipple video later that is really good.