How Has Sex Changed

Female 1: Thousands of men and women responded to the prevention sex survey and shared candid details about their love lives. We hit the streets to get the real life stories behind the numbers. This is Prevention’s Bedroom Confidential. 59% of women like sex more now than they did 10 years ago. 45% of men like sex more now. How was your sex life changed over the years? Female 2: So how is sex better or worse for you from your 20’s until now? Male 1: It’s better. Female 3: In our 20’s I think we were still just experimenting and but then again, but those were very busy years so while we were together it was really, that was a good quality time. Male 2: Our sex life has changed most over those 29 years probably because as far as spontaneity is concern, you know. I used to know, one of my children was conceived in the backseat of a white -- which had orange seats in it. Female 3: I think the 30’s in our 30’s was really good. The kids were at an age where we had more time for intimacy. Female 2: The worst part is I guess the kids because we probably have less alone time now than when we were in our 20’s. Male 3: By the way, she’s 35. She’s in her prime, primal heat. Male 2: She’s younger than I am. You know women reach their peak much later than men. So sometimes I’m running quickly to catch up with her. Female 4: When we are together we’re just having fun. I’m not thinking about other things, I’m just thinking about that. So I’m not thinking about I have to study for a class or I have to test or I have to do this or I have to figure out what I’m going to do today. Female 2: I think it matters too that you trust the person and with the trust everything else develops just well. Male 3: When I was younger, I wanted to just go right to it. Now that I’m older I need a little bit more stimulation. So I’m becoming more like a woman. As the older I’m getting I need a little bit more foreplay, may I say that? Male 1: Being with one person for a long period of time, you get to know that person better and better as time goes on and as you're with each other more often and it’s just, between feeling more comfortable and being more open about things. Over time it just gets better.