I got an email from Claire on Arlington, Texas. She wrote me, she asks:
Dear Sam, I have been dating a guy for about a month now and I am not sure if he is really into me or he is just playing around? How can I tell?
Okay, Claire first off, good decision coming to me with this question and not trying to get your answer from one of the sex’s that he enters who writes a column inn COSMO. Because I got the real answer for you.
First thing to do, next time you can bring up organically, talk about a nasty, filthy one night stand you had in detail and mention how much you like it. If you want, you can even run the details by me before hand just to make sure that there are dirty enough.
Now, what you are looking for is reaction. If he seems turned on, he is just into for sex. But if he is trying to play it all, keep his cool nodding a lot going uhm—oh sure—oh, you did that too—45 minutes—four fingers—things like that. That means inside his repressing that fire, burning, smoking rage that some other guy got to use his sweet pure woman nasty none-committal sex and that is a sign of true love.
If that does not work, there is a few other things you can look for. If you are out and he is feeding you enough alcohol to take down a rush on. That actually means he likes you. If he just want to get it on, hid only what you could drunk enough to find him sexually attractive.
But if he lets you drink like Lisa’s grandfather the battle four Donaldson. Its cause he is ready to take care of you. Also, if he admits to liking any of the following things, he is into you. Grace Anatomy, Justin Timberlake, the Notebook, Collingas, Oprah all those things that you would sensitive, caring side is vulnerability, yeah, all of them.
Even Oprah and finally, if he ever calls you at 2:30 in the morning and it is not for a booty call, but just a talk. And he really, really loves you. Okay Claire, I hope that helps you out, until the rest of you this has been Sam Grinspend with Sam’s House and Knowledge and remember, I am here for you.
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