How to Approach Women During The Daytime

Hi everybody! It’s Alex here from SucceedAtDating.com and welcome back to another video training session. I'm assuming you know by now but if you haven’t seen any of my pick-up videos online, I encourage you to watch some of them to see that it is possible to go out and meet women during the day, to connect with women during the day like never before. But the reason for this video training today is I received an email from a guy, one of my subscribers and he says, “Alex, it is so hard approaching women during the day, it’s difficult”. I know it’s difficult, you're telling me, I’ve been doing this for the last 3 years. Something you do need to know is this is one of the hardest skills you’ll ever master. So this video is kind of for him, it is one of the hardest skills you will ever master. You never, I mean you can never learn everything there is to know. There's no cap and you will always, there's always something to learn. And the fact is even some of the greatest masters that doing this going out, picking up and meeting women, they still get rejected. And I mean everyone gets rejected, it happens and a very frustrating experience so it’s just a part of a game. If you're not willing to accept that, then don’t play the game because that’s what you know, the game is full of rejection. It’s full of frustration and it’s very frustrating going out during the day, if the frustrating part of it, to begin with it’s usually all you see these beautiful women and you don’t approach, that’s frustrating. Well may be you are approaching and you're not really getting phone numbers. Or may be you're getting phone numbers and you get in fights like the women are not answering the phone calls. So there are different stages and you kind of decide what stage you're at. You know, are getting phone numbers or are you getting date and you don’t know how to bring them back to your place? It’s very frustrating and the big difference between day game and night game. And what day game is so much more frustrating is because you don’t have the loud music like you do in bars or clubs. You don’t have your friends nudging you along, giving you that extra support or extra confidence you might need to approach that girl. In bars or clubs there are so many like 50, 000 women there bar or club to practice on, so you kind of like, you can temporarily block yourself from getting the approach anxiety, the 3 second rule like 1, 2, 3, approach. 1, 2, 3, approach, like there are so many women there, but during the day you might not see a girl for 20 minutes. You're walking around, you might not see a girl 25th and 20 minutes and all the while there's a little voice in your head saying, giving you reasons why you're not good enough or reasons why you're looking weird and you're acting weird. All these different these different negative thoughts coming on, you know coming at you at the same time in that 20 minutes. So I’m just saying it is very frustrating that the hang in there, a lot you know what the guys tell you, “Alex it works for you know, you're confident”. I’m not confident, I’m not a confident guy, dating, yes, I know, I’ve been living and breathing this for the last 5 years, I know this, I can speak on this confidently. But you put me in any of the situation, apart from dating, like put me in a mass fair or science competition, I know nothing about that, I'm not the smartest tool in the toolbox. I’ve never been to University before, in fact I’ve barely passed school, I’m not the smartest tool in the toolbox and if you see some of my videos, if you’ve seen some of pick-up videos, you think, “Oh, it sound so smooth, he’s so suave and witty”. And it looks like, it looks like that, it looks like it’s coming out naturally but the fact is and not many who would know this, that may be you should if you watched some of my pick-up videos. I’ve been practicing those lines. Everything I’ve said, I’ve said a hundreds of times before. For the conversation start, I’ve said a thousand times before so I really have drilled myself to learn these off by heart. And that way I’m prepared for any situations. So when a girl says something to me or gives me a test or your know trust challenge me, I have something to say, ready on the tip of my tongue because I’ve practiced it. It’s not witty, it’s not confidence, it’s just something I’m very prepared. And you have to prepare to fail or you know, you’re prepared or you prepare to fail, you have the wind by desire or you loose by default. And I prefer to win, so be prepared, hang in there, make sure, you can even memorize what I say. Like memorize word for word the conversation started, you can steal some of my stories until you find your own once I give absolute permission to plagiarized, it’s all good. But you know obviously, you will further on find your own sort of star. That I mean that’s it Day game. How it is frustrating, it is one of most frustrating skills you will ever seek out to master but the pay off is enormous. The ability to go down in your coffee break or lunch break and while you're getting lunch, you know meet a beautiful girl, connect with her. And so many opportunities come, so many opportunities will come your way, because Friday or Saturday night, if you're only going out to bars and clubs front ends that they're not, then you are limiting yourself big time. There are so many women who don’t go bars or clubs because they hate it. They hate the drunkenness, they hate the loud music, they hate all these competition, they might hate the drugs, there are a lot drugs in bars or clubs now. They, I mean for every guy, who doesn’t do bars or clubs is free women and they don’t do bars or clubs. They go out during the day and these are some of the hottest women ever. So don’t limit yourself just to Friday and Saturday night. If you know Day game and you can confidently walk up to a girl and approach her then opportunities, so many more opportunities will present themselves to you. I hope this video has been a little helpful to you and I hope it has confidence inspired for you to just to go out and do a couple of approaches. My name’s Alex. I have more videos just like this, watch is over at SucceedAtDating.com. I’ll see you there.