Hold the ring back a bit and the pick up game. Welcome everyone to Bruce Min’s video. Today, we are going to slow it down as attracting women.
If you are attempting to pick up women or you are just learning the methods involved in successfully attracting women, you may want to keep things slow-paced. What I mean by this is that you should not rush the act of trying to pick up a woman. And you should spend quality time of getting to know and speak with the woman you are trying to attract.
If you are on a big rush to attract the woman and get them to agree to a get-together or a date, you may come across as desperate. Instead, you should the rings back a bit in the pick up game if you want your pick up strategies to bear fruit.
There are several signs that could indicate that you are moving too fast when you are trying to attract women. Now, bear in mind that a woman does not like to be rushed into anything. And if you are going to attempt to attract women, you are going to want to make them as comfortable as possible. You should therefore keep a watchful eye on your unpick up habits to ensure none of the ugly signs of hurriedness propped up and then later on mistaken for desperation.
First, imagine you are trying to pick up a woman. You may not want to give her a gift the minute you meet her or within the first few minutes of meeting her right? Well, believe it or not, there are some guys that carry around little trinkets for juts such an occasion and guess what? That is really a bad idea. It is unnatural to be giving a woman gifts within the first few hours of meeting and may even make her feel awkward. Slow down and refrain from gift-giving until you really get to know the woman a little better.
To that end, if you want to keep her attracted to you and you want to avoid making her feel obligated to you, avoid super fancy expensive gifts later on down the road. Leave the fancy gifts for longer term relationships and dating occasions.
Secondly, do not oh-so-willing to be agreeable in every sense. When you are talking a woman that you are trying to attract, pay attention to what she is saying. Reflect on what she is saying and offer a true, valid and genuine opinion on the matter in a tactful way. If you become what I call a bubblehead, and simply shake your head in agreement to every little thing she is saying and you do not really engage in the conversation, the woman you are trying to attract will view your actions as a sign of desperation over eagerness or worst, disinterest in her.
Thirdly, sometimes, a pick up artist thinks that the more women he successfully picks up, the more attractive he must be. A vicious cycle develops here and the man will began to think that he must pick up as many women as he possibly can in order for him to feel valuable. Here, you need to slow down and take a good look at yourself before you make another move. As a pick up artist, your goal is to attract women successfully and you may have your own personal motivations for that, but your motivation should not revolve around the development of your own self-worth.
If you do not believe in yourself, you are defeating the purpose entirely. Essentially, if you want to be attractive to women, you are going to have to believe in yourself. Slow it down and play the attraction game in a slow but sure confident style.
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