Hi everybody its Alex here from succeed of dating.com and calling in from a very special place today. I’m here in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania and behind me is the Independence Hall and in there or around there is the famous Liberty Bell.
Anyway the reason for this video today is I just came form New York and I spent a whole week in New York where most of my customers are for my street dating pick up videos. And I get a lot of costumers emailing me and saying well its very different approaching women in New York, it’s a lot more fast paced. And basically its they are going to be on guard at all times. And I thought, well I’ll give this a try.
And one morning I was there, I was there for a week and one morning I went out with the intention of approaching as many women as possible and just before 1 pm, I had three hours in field to going out and I did four approaches. And in those four approaches I got probably I got three phone numbers as a great result.
And I want to reveal like a quick way of doing this and you can do this in any city. It doesn’t really matter if you’re based in New York, you can be in any busy city near you and even if you are local, you don’t have to be a tourist. I do this in city all the time, I have a tourist map, so I have a map of the area. And I stop people and say excuse me can I get directions from you and pull out the map. And ask them, I’m trying to find a costume shop or I’m trying to find a certain bridge or a certain touristy place to check out.
And when people see you have a map, it is obviously you need directions and everyone going to help you when you’re asking them with directions. So I pull out of this map and I got directions and I was kind of skeptical, I saw you and I thought, you know is she going to rob me, if she’s going to be beat me up or something, but you know it turned out to be a friendly girl and I’m thankful for that. And basically I was starting a good conversation and probably I got probably 2 or 3 phone number at least fun four approaches. That is a pretty good rank and you don’t have to be a tourist. The good thing about this is, and I do this all the time in Sydney. You can be a local, you can live in a building right up there like run next to you and still pull out a map. You can say I don’t travel around much or I am not going out much and I kind of need directions.
And basically this is just being prepared, being prepared when you go around. So just min case someone asked you for directions, you can pull out a map or for you to go out and do some dating games and start conversations asking for people directions. Let’s say I do the same thing when I go out at bars and clubs at night. I always carry a box of matches with me. The reason for this is I get stopped all the time outside by girls saying do you have a light? Because I got a cigarette and I always have a box of matches. Because this box of matches is still cool, it’s interesting when you have a box of matches and not a lighter. And usually I only have 2, I’ve set this up, I have only have 2 matches in the box. And I’ll say I got enough 2 matches left so I have to ration this out. I have to ration this out to very important people only. So I tell you what I’ll give you a match if you can answer this question for me. What are the five oceans in this world? There are 5 oceans in the world if you name all 5 I’ll give you this match. And you kind of set up a frame, you’re qualifying her and it’s a fun thing if you smile and you having fun. Most girls will buy into that.
So be prepared, so what you got for the day? Have a map, give a try and let me know how it goes.
My name’s Alex and for more videos just like this one head over to succeed@dating.com. I’ll see you soon.
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