Liz Tuccillo: I’m starting to feel like there’s a cost to freedom which is that you’ve become independent and strong and liberated and you don’t need a man but then the opposite of that is that you get so not picky but so particular about who you’re willing to lo, what do you think the answer is, should you have cultivated a less interesting life for yourself? No what is the answer tell me. What do you think what’s going to happen to us?
Would you ever suggest than trying less hard to be successful in order to be more marriable.
Bijiyi: It’s impossible to do here.
Liz Tuccillo: How is about women would just work best harder things successful and they just be a bit stupid.
Bijiyi: No, it’s a habit for Chinese women to work very hard.
Liz Tuccillo: They just can’t help themselves.
Bijiyi: That’s right.
Liz Tuccillo: Really. Is that a sort of like something than women talk about do you think in real life that they wish sometimes that maybe I should be simpler.
Female: I think in China the culture the men most like the lady is not too much independent.
Bijiyi: Men don’t look up they look down.
Liz Tuccillo: Men.
Bijiyi: Yeah.
Liz Tuccillo: Meaning they want someone you say down that would imply less money, less brains.
Bijiyi: Less education.
Liz Tuccillo: Less education.
Bijiyi: Also family.
Liz Tuccillo: Less nice family.
Bijiyi: And also jobs. Worst jobs.
Liz Tuccillo: So the men married down.
Bijiyi: Yeah and the woman married up. So let —
Liz Tuccillo: The top women
Bijiyi: The first class woman and the last class man see that’s in China.
Liz Tuccillo: That’s bad.
Bijiyi: You were in China we see it’s called out there.
Liz Tuccillo: It is cold up here.
Bijiyi: Man can always look down but the first class women they look up the sky. Nothing there
Liz Tuccillo: It’s not good news. One more country with no good news.
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