Female: My sexual urge doesn’t go in the grave with my husband who died, you know.
Liz: Or with age, it doesn’t go away?
Female: No.
Liz: Oh, I was hoping to look forward to and then will go away and they went out to worry so much.
Do women at all just go out?
Female: When we go out, I feel sad. I look at people or men my age and I think, ‘oh my God, they look awful.’ And what does a woman like me do with a man like that?
Liz: I don’t know.
Female: He will be so afraid.
I don’t like to be always alone and the only opportunity to have sex is to pick somebody for one night.
Female: I think that—I think men, they only want to have sex and if they want to have sex, I think they shall pay for it. They are not coming to me and have free sex the first night, I hate it.
Female: I’m 48 years old. I’m very shy to talking about sex like or the men. I couldn’t find out how to date or read men because I was used to be dragged.
Liz: Is the feeling that you have to look for love when you get to be older and you’re not going out to bars as much that it’s more something that you have to make an effort to find?
Female: I think women our age, they stop looking
Liz: They do.
Female: Yeah it does—
Liz: Yes, it means stop looking. There is not a sense of like what’s wrong with me?
Female: No, no.
Liz: What’s wrong me? I’m single, at all? Everybody agrees?
Female: I’ve been single for 22 years. I feel fantastic.
Liz: But what about just wanting a man?
Female: I think you can always get a man if you want to.
Liz: And in the country of such independent thinker, I wondered what their thoughts were on marriage.
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