How to Be Single in Italy Part 4/6

Female1: Do you think that you can sort of choose to fall in love with someone or does it have to be that magic. Male1: [Foreign Language] Female2: It’s not a voluntary act. Male1: [Foreign Language] Female2: Submit to love, love chooses you and when you—when love comes you have to loose yourself. Male1: [Foreign Language] Female2: Not because you want to but because you have to because its there and you can resists. Male1: [Foreign Language] Female1: But how do you loose yourself in love what does that even mean. Male2: If you want to find a satisfied relationship with another you must be this close to, to loose yourself for loving, for the love of the other. Female1: Then it would make perfect sense why I haven't fallen in love very much because I'm thought to believe that you shouldn’t loose yourself in a relationship. Shouldn’t loose yourself in love, you have to stay who you are. Male2: In the gospel when Jesus said that “Only the person who losses light will find it”. Female1: Anyway I ask people on the street yesterday, what is the most important thing you had to have to fall in love and they’ve said, they all said “You have to be willing to loose yourself”. Female3: Look how nice you look, oh my God except for the sneakers but that’s okay. Female1: Okay, maybe it means being willing to take a risk, making yourself vulnerable, being open to new ideas. I have a hard time falling in love and that’s why I'm single. Because the truth is I hate taking risk, I hate being vulnerable. Female4: And then the cameras they just came I don’t know what happened. Male3: Okay, there is no problem. Male4: If I am honest, I have to say “Please if you want to be happy in your life loose yourself for love”. Female1: And I hate motorcycles, but when in Rome—