How to Create Good First Impressions on a Job Interview

Have you even notice how a first date is so much like an interview? I’m Nicole Williams and I’m the author of a book called “Girl On Top” and I’ve taken the top 20 dating rules and I’ve turned them into career strategies. Me, my trustee pen we’re going to help to perpetually single a man that eases this interview. Let’s go to the video tape. [Demonstration] Stop right there, enough. Rule number one. Keep your mouth shut. Let’s draw a little zipper over a man’s mouth here and his bag so much baggage coming out of her mouth, carrying out over on. When we’re nervous, we talk and we often tell people thinks that are wild and appropriate about ourselves. Really, one of the best ways you can differentiate yourself in a workplace and have a little mystery. [Demonstration] Let’s put on the breaks here. I am all about rule number 2 which is if you got it flaunted but Amanda is going overboard here. Let’s draw on a little cardigan. Let’s cover these boobs up and hello like we need a little distance here and this is just way too close for comfort and the spirit in all about the power of a sexy leg in a skirt but this is way too short. At the end of the day, it really is about your brain. I am so about making people felt comfortable and attractive but there was a line. You don’t want cross it. [Demonstration] Let’s stop the tape right there. If you booze, you lose. Rule number 3 is you have to lay off the liquor. Cosmo, hard liquor let’s get rid of this and here’s the thing, even if your companion is drinking have one or have none. If you become a hot drunk mess, I promise you this is not attractive to a boyfriend and it is definitely not attracted to her boss. [Demonstration] Are you out of your mind telling a potential boss that you are looking to get pregnant on your first interview is career suicide? No, big no to this one, it’s just common sense, on the first date no boyfriend and no boss wants to hear about the fact that you want to get. [Demonstration] Okay, Amanda we need to cool it. You want to play hard to get, nothing make someone want you more than knowing that there someone else out there who wants you as well. What I want you to do is be a little KJ about your past ex’s. Let’s have some other appointments for. [Demonstration] And then we come back to the most important rule of all and that is to follow your heart. These people, they are just as eager to fill this job as you are to land it and at the end of the day this has to be the right fit for both of you. I promise if you’re confident, if you’re sexy, if you’re bold you will find the one. For 15 more ways to turn dating rules and a career success check out my book “Girl on Top” in stores now. And for more on dating and relationships visit YourTango.com. This has been a co-production of YourTango.com and works by Nicole Williams.