How to Deal with Inability to Reach an Orgasm

Jennifer: Hi! This is a question from Gemma in Australia. Dear Dan and Jennifer, for years I have been trying to have an orgasm but nothing ever happens. No matter how much I tried, I do not seem to be able to do it. Could you please help me what should I do I have tried so many things, please help. Dan: Oh no. If you really tried everything then its time to see, go and see a professional on this field. We would suggest seeing a sex therapist. Jennifer: Yes, probably a sex therapist. Dan: These could be somewhat physical or go to someone that you really have tried a lot, a lot of the— Jennifer: Or councilor, because it could be emotional as well. Dan: Yes, it could physical or it could be an emotional issue. Either one you really should seek professional help. Someone that can get intimately familiar with your situation. Figure out which one of these it is and that will be good. Jennifer: Don’t go to your medical doctor first, okay. There is not a pill for everything. I do not care what they say, but talk to someone and that is why we are going to recommend the sex therapists. If you truly tried everything, maybe there is a physical problem that is preventing you from having an orgasm or maybe there is an emotional block that is not letting you relax in that so enough that you can. Dan: Which is very likely. Jennifer: And you know from here we cannot tell what that is and we are not therapists so— Dan: But someone that will get intimately familiar with your life, with your physical condition with your emotional situation with your background whatever. You will be able to kind a get you back there.