Welcome to Intelligent Love. I’m your host, Joy Nordenstrom and today we have something special in store for you.
First of, is your love too stressed out for sex because she has had a rough day at the office? You know the routine. She’s ready to curl up on the couch, eat some comfort food to unwind and this looks like there has to before, you ain’t getting lucky tonight. So if you want to help her unwind without falling asleep in her hollowed kiddy flannel jimmies, here are a few helpful hints to get her in the mood.
One of my favorite suggestions is a sexy bubble bath. If you're going to surprise her, get started the day before. Many women don’t want to take a bath in their boyfriend’s tub. So, make it spick and span for her. Clean the tub, floors, towels and bath mantle. Also, know this beforehand if she likes bubble bath and buy the scent she craves or add a few drops of essential oil or some basils. The day of—grab a bottle of bubbly, a white wine or some vodka on your way home. Grapes, a mango or an orange are all good fruits to have on hand, while she is chilling in the tub. Maybe some rose petals and a couple of flowers to place in the bathroom. Make sure you have candles and have something sexy or romantic to read for her. Before she gets home, have some relaxing music playing, The Angel is great mood music and so is Corinne Bailey Rae and Enya.
Find out when she’s about—15 minutes away from home and start chilling the beverage on ice. Put the fruits on a tray, light the candles throughout the house, dim the lights and start the bathtub running a few minutes before she arrives. Start undressing her at the door or leave a note or a trail of petals for her to follow.
For an extra punch, you can read some erotic to her or include a bath toy, the water proof vibrator, like Jimmy Jane’s Form 6, for her to get in the mood and eventually orgasm, she needs to be relaxed. With stressful thoughts, must be completely removed from her mind, because your mind is your largest sex organ. So doing a little fantasy foreplay with extra help from Jimmy Jane is sure to lead her down the right path. Now she can brag about you to her girlfriends. What's more, thoughts of the romantic sexy you will continue to create a powerful chemical cocktail inside her body and when she sees you the following night after work, chances are her mental foreplay will have already began. Think of it as residual income. Do something one day, she thinks about it throughout the next and you—and she will want to thank you again and again.
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