Hi! I’m Blaire, the Love Guru and I wanted to welcome you to my website.
You're in the right place if you're looking to attract the one. In 2004, I was super frustrated with my love life or the lack of my love life. I just could not get into a successful relationship. My relationships would last, may be a month or two and then they would mysteriously end. So I got super frustrated, I was able to help other people attract love in their lives but I couldn’t get it right for myself.
So I got to a point, one evening, I got home and I said, “You know what? I'm going to put up a website, I’m going to put my picture on the website, I’m going to put my profile up and I am going to share it with my friends and family and say, hey I am ready to get married, I’m ready to attract my one, I need your help, do you know my husband?” The website was called MarryBlaire.com like “Will you marry me?” Marry Blaire and I just put it up online and I put some pictures of myself up there at this how I look when I meet my husband, this is how I look when you know I get my first kiss from my husband, like I put a lot of goofy pictures up there.
And I just listed out everything about me, everything I was looking for and then, well first if I was even done building the website I was just going to send this to some friends and family. But I had shown a couple of friends and I said, “don’t show this website to anybody. I'm not done with it yet.” But one friend did and he told another friend who told another friend that ended up blogging about it and in within a couple of days, again, you know before the website was done being built, I was getting emails from all across the world from men and from women who are feeling the same way that I was feeling, frustrated in love.
You know, I mean I was doing everything to find the one. I was looking an online, I was going on dates, I was going out, you know being social, everything that I would thought you were supposed to do. So I said, “You know what? Let me put this website up to be a little bit more pro-active”. So I ended up getting a lot of press on this website. Within two weeks, I was written up in the New York Times and I was interviewed on MSNBC and the list goes on and on.
So everybody, what ended up happening was, my private frustration with love ended up being very public and then what ended up with that was people all across the world were helping me find my husband. Which was fun, because then I had a lot of suitors and people were sending in their pictures to me and saying “I’ll be your husband. Do you want to go out on a date with me?”
So that was very fun but what ended happening was you know, even it started off as being frustration and I couldn’t get it right and what’s going on and I don’t want to deal with this anymore so you deal with it. It started off like that, but through that year, that my website was up, I went through a very big transformation and my whole outlook on dating in relationships had changed. And the way that I went about attracting love totally changed. And I am a completely different person now and I look at the world completely differently.
Still one of the things that I always hated that I just was not working for me, was every time I read a dating book, you know or studied up about something, I still read a lot of the information because you know it’s my field and I like the topic.
But every time I use to read a dating book, it would tell me that I needed to do this. You know, “Don’t talk to a guy too long on the phone”, you know “Don’t be too available to men because then they're…” I don’t know you know all these different things that I should do which I like talking on the phone for a long time. I’m a talker, so I had a, I was always being told that what I was doing was wrong. I had to change who I was, I was being too available, you know, I was afraid of ruining a relationship. I was always afraid of ruining relationship.
And what happened through those years was my fear of always being afraid to ruin a relationship I was just by default ended up ruining them. Because I wasn’t really sharing who I truly was, I was playing games. And I didn’t realize I was playing games, it wasn’t to hurt anybody or whatever, it was just because I wanted to have a successful relationship and that’s what I thought I had it do to have a successful relationship.
So what I’m going to teach you through your journey because now it’s your turn. If you want to go through this and if you really want to attract the one and you know you feel it in your heart. I mean, I was at a point that I really, really wanted him. So if you're feeling the same way and the things that you’re doing are not really working for you, then I will be happy to take you through your transformation and to join you on your journey. And I'm going to teach you how to become so proud of who you are, so authentic. That you're attracting men to you rather than what I used to do what you're probably doing now is going out and looking for men. Looking, looking, looking, you know, “I want to find love”, which means that you're looking for it. Doing lots of busy work you to, a lot of hard work, I mean it used to feel like a second job for me to go home and then look on the internet for a date.
So I'm going to switch it, I’m going to help you attract love so that all what you need to do is be who you are and then the men come flocking and that means the one too. I mean it’s not like you’re just going to attract the one and not attract the other men. You’re going to just be attracting lots of people to you and it also attracts other opportunities to you too. Your whole life gets better.
So welcome and make sure you sign up for the newsletter while you're here because that’s your first step to get started. I'm sharing with you and audio that best kept secret to attract the one that was the secret formula that I was always looking for and I found it so that’s what I’m sharing with you. And it also includes an exercise for you to start you know listen to the audio and then do the exercise to start attracting the one to you.
All right, so I’m looking forward to getting to know, I’m looking forward to taking you on your journey to attract the one.
And until we speak next time, I wish you the best in love, bye-bye.
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