Hi, I’m Blaire the Love Guru and I wanted to welcome you to my website. You are in the right place if you’re looking to attract “The One.” I found my “One” now it’s time for you to find yours.
So let me share to you how I did it; how I attracted my “One” in 2004, I was super frustrated with my love life or the lack of my love life. I just could not get into a successful relationship. My relationships would last maybe a month or two and then they would mysteriously end for various reasons the guy would become shady or disappear or we just would not get along anymore and it wouldn’t work out. So I got super frustrated. I was able to help other people attract love in their lives but I could not get a bright one for myself so I got to a point one evening I got home and I said; you know what? I’m going to put up a website, I’m going to put my picture on the website, I’m going to put my profile up and I am going to share it with my friends and family and say; “hey, I am ready to get married, I’m ready to attract my “One” I need your help. Do you know my husband?” the website was called MarryBlaire.com like will you marry me Marry Blaire and I just put it up on line and I put some pictures of myself up there and this is how I look when I meet my husband, this is how I will look when I get my first kiss from my husband. I put a lot of goofy pictures up there and I just listed out everything about me, everything I was looking for.
Well first of I wasn’t even done building the website. I was just going to send this to some friends and family but I had shown a couple of friends and I said; “don’t show this website to anybody, I’m not done with it yet.” But one friend did, he told another friend who told another friend and ended up blogging about it and within a couple of days again even before their website was done being built. I was getting emails form all across the world from men and from women who are feeling the same way that I was feeling; frustrated in love.
I was doing everything to find the “One. I was looking online; I was going on dates; I was going out being social. Everything that I thought you’re supposed to do. So I said you know what, let me put this website up to be a little bit more pro-active. So I ended up getting a lot of press on this website. Within two weeks I was written up in The New York Times and I was interviewed on MSMBC and the list goes on and on. So, everybody what ended up happening was my private frustration with love ended up being very public and then what ended up happening with that was people all across the world were helping me find my husband which was fun because then I had a lot of suitors and people were sending in their pictures to me and saying I’ll be your husband do you want to go out on a date with me? So that was very fun but what ended up happening was it started of as being frustration and I could not get it right and what’s going on and I don’t want to deal with this anymore so you deal with it. It started of like that but through that year that my website was up, I went through a very big transformation and my whole outlook on dating and relationships had changed and the way that I went about attracting love totally changed. And in that journey, I attracted my “One” and I am completely different person now and I look at the world completely differently.
See one of the things that I always hated that just was not working for me was every time I read a dating book or studied up about something. I still read a lot of the information because it’s my field and I like the topic but every time I used to read a dating book it would tell me that I needed to do this or don’t talk to a guy too long on the phone or don’t be too available to men because then there… I do not know. All these different things that I should do which I like talking on the phone for a long time, I’m a talker so I was always being told that what I was doing was wrong I had to change who I was. I was being too available, I was afraid of ruining relationships, I was always afraid of ruining relationship and what happened through those years was my fear of always being afraid to ruin a relationship I always just by default ended up ruining them because I wasn’t really sharing who I truly was. I was playing games and I did not realize I was playing games. It was not to hurt anybody or whatever it was just because I wanted to have a successful relationship and that’s what I thought I had it to do to have a successful relationship.
So what I’m going to teach you through your journey because now it’s your turn if you want to go through this and if you really want to attract the “One” and you feel it in your heart. I mean I was at a point that I really, really, really, really wanted him. So if you’re feeling the same way and the things that you’re doing are not really working for you then I will be happy to take you through your transformation and to join you on your journey and I’m going to teach you how to become so proud of who you are—so authentic that you are attracting men to you rather than what I used to do. What you’re probably doing now is going out and looking for men. Looking, looking, looking. I want to find love which means that you are looking for it, doing lots of busy work and lots of hard work. It used to feel like a second job for me to go home and then look on the internet for a date.
So I’m going to switch it. I’m going to help you attract love so that all what you need to do is be who you are and then the men come flocking and that means “The One” too. It’s not like you’re just going to attract the one and not attract other men. You’re going to just be attracting lots of people to you and it also attracts other opportunities to you too and your whole life gets better.
So welcome and makes sure you sign up for the news letter while you’re here because that’s your first step to get started. I’m sharing with you an audio on the best kept secret to attract “The One” that was the secret formula that I was looking for and I found it. So that’s what I am sharing with you and it also includes an exercise for you to start. Listen to the audio and then do the exercise to start attracting “The One” to you.
So I’m looking forward to getting to know you. I’m looking forward to taking you on your journey to attract “The One” and until we speak next time. I wish you the best in love, bye-bye.
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