Regena: Greeting sisters. Regena is here. I'm Regena, headmistress of Mama Gena School
of Womanly Arts. And today we are going to do the womanly art of flirtation.
Flirtation, a pleasure to give and a displeasure to receive.
It feels so good to be amongst the field of flirting flowers. So what's your
definition of flirtation? What is flirtation? What's your opinion? What's you got?
Female: Actually, I think, sometimes in my way, its silence is golden. And it’s kind of like
the chemistry is energy. You come into a room and how you carry yourself and its
how your inner self is feeling. And that really exerts outside of you. And so,
sometimes it’s just that quiet. It’s almost like you just don’t even see them.
But you do really want them, but you're just not letting them know that.
Regena: I got you. So it’s got something to do with like a little brew. Has something to do
with silence and wanting.
Female2: For me it’s something to do with letting sweetness flow out. so there's some kind
of sweet, delicious, feeling that you get inside and its letting it release and go out
into and direct it, direct it. I wouldn’t even realize the direct it 'til I said it. Direct
it.
Regena: Directed sweet release. Ooh, you like it?
Female3: I think flirtation has something to do with putting attention on someone. And
smiling and having fun like that.
Regena: Okay. Okay, I'm liking it. I'm liking it. Anyone else got something for me?
Female4: How about confidence? Feeling really confident in yourself. When you walk into
a situation, you feel good. You feel strong. You feel confident. And then you can
kind of let that radiate out a little bit. A little emanation, little vibration.
Regena: Loving it. I'm loving all of these. I mean, we have such a wonderful flirtation
cocktail here. Okay, everything said beautiful, delicious, all layers of the same
pie. Love it, I want to add on just a little more. Okay. Because many women have
this idea that what we do is we flirt in order to get something. Like it’s a behavior
that supposed to entice the opposite sex to like buy us dinner, buy us a drink, ask
us out. Something where you're trying to create a consequences in your action.
And what I want to do is I want to sort of pry that apart and give you the power
that flirtation actually is, which is just for you.
See, flirtation is nothing more or nothing less than enjoying yourself in the
presence of another person. Okay, that’s all it is. It’s just enjoying yourself in the
presence of another person. And as women, flirtation is in our DNA. You knew
how that is. You can't but see a 6 month old baby girl and she's not flirting with
you and giving you the old come here. You like walk in the super market, did that
ever happened? You were in the super market and suddenly you're following
somebody’s cart around going oogie-boogie-boogie. Because like, some little itty-
bitty baby girl hooks you and gets you and you're intoxicating. Guess what, we're
all that intoxicating. We all have that ability that is in each of us, because we as
women we are kind of none denominational flirters. We're going to flirt with
dogs, you know how you, come here puppy. And we flirt with babies, we flirt
with girlfriends, because it’s like, you look so pretty. And then what do you say to
me?
Female5: No girl, you look so pretty.
Regena: Yeah. We’re just like going back and forth. And then of course we flirt with guys.
And all of this happening is we are notching up that spirit of being attractive and
being fun and enjoying ourselves and taking pleasure from ourselves in the
presence of others.
So the deal with flirtation is there is a huge consequence. Everyone who is in your vicinity while
you are flirting goes higher. It’s really a way of taking care of the planet. Because
every time you flirt with somebody, you're happy, they're happy, they were happy
you were there. They stay happy for hours afterwards. They're like something
significant happens. A woman enjoyed herself where I was. And that is rare,
ladies. That is rare to have a woman swashing around this planet, enjoying herself
and sprinkling her pixie dust wherever she goes. Oh it is so elevating, oh you have
such power, do you just dazzle yourself? And damn it’s so easy, all you have to
do is love yourself. Oh, isn't that just easy.
But you know like in this scheme of things, we are in control of that. Alright. You want to take
even more control of that?
Girls: Yes.
Regena: Yeah, a little instantaneous self adoration for the purposes of flirtation and taking
care of this marvelous planet oh so we live on?
I have this little exercise that I do in class which is called Bitte et Chat. And
anyone familiar with at French phrase? No? Well the rough English equivalent
would be a penis and vulva. And the idea behind is basically this, it’s sort of like
when you communicate with somebody, you kind of think about your vulva while
you're looking at him or her. Like you think about your 8000 nerve endings,
you're thinking about the pleasure that you receive, you think about the privilege
of being a woman. Your 8000 nerve endings are charged up, fired up ready to go
as you communicate with a person. But you don’t say this out loud. Okay. So
you're just looking at them having this thought and it’s hugely powerful.
I mean, I have sister goddesses, let's say, they're so wealthy that can buy and sell
us 3 or 4 times over. And they’ll come to class and they’ll practice this little skill
set and they go into Starbucks. And they’ll flirt the deli guy and what happens is
that they get a free coffee and they are more blown away by their free coffee that
their flirtation created than they are about their 9000 houses and limousines.
And I have this very interesting experience, I sort of kind of use this once, only once, to my great
advantage. I was called by The Late Night with Conan O’Brien Show to be on
national TV. I never was on national TV before and I was asked to go on and to
meet Conan and to chat about this whole Womanly Arts.
So, I'm thinking Lord, how am I going to get through this and be glorious. And I thought,
flirtation, Bitte et Chat. It’s going to be no problem. Right? So I get on the set and
the hair and the makeup, the glamour of it all. and I'm back stage and I'm thinking
about my 8000 nerve endings and there's Max Weinberg and I carrying my 8000
nerve endings on to the set. And right before I went out I'm thinking, you know
what I would love? God it would be so fun to be a regular.
It was just a mere thought flash through my mind, I went out, I made my entries. I had so much
fun with this tall red headed man. Oh my God, he was amazing. Chemistry was
riveting, it was rocking. We rocked and rolled, by the end of the segment, he
turned to me and said, you have to go back here. No, no, no. I am so not kidding.
And I was like, yes, 8000 nerve endings. Yes.
And then what happened was he had me back, in one year, four times. Like that doesn’t
happened. Okay. Because who was I? I'm not like a movie star, yet. But that’s the
power, that’s the power of flirtation. That’s the power that each of us has.
Anyone have a little trouble flirting?
Anne: I have trouble flirting.
Regena: You're kidding.
Anne: I'm really, really shy.
Regena: Look at your hot little number that you are.
Anne: Thank you. See that even makes me feel bashful. I'm super shy. It’s very hard for
me to flirt.
Regena: But you can flirt like a shy women. You don’t have to be outrageous to flirt, even
though I am. Like every woman has her way, like her DNA, like you have
gorgeous blonde hair and blue eyes. That’s your style. Your flirtation is going to
be your style.
Julie: I'm just shy about it. I had flirted, I had a lot of fun before. But most of the time,
I'm shy about it.
Regena: Okay, so do you like, do you freeze or do you just, what do you do?
Julie: I kind of stay to myself.
Regena: The solitary flirt. Just over here myself.
Julie: I play it small part.
Regena: Alright, who wants to amp up the volume on her flirtation? Okay, alright. Let's
go. And let's go on up here, let's see what we got going on.
Alright, so, flirtation. Ready? What we're going to do, you know this is just
practice. This is just about us sister together practicing our skill sets. Our
womanly arts, we're just practicing our womanly arts.
So what I want you to do is kind of like check out Anne and say, hey. Hey girl,
you look gorgeous. Loving your hair, whatever it is. You look over there and you
see is cute or turns you on and you think it is great. Then I want you to go back at
her. And while you're doing this, I want you think about your 8000 nerve endings.
Let's just take a moment and let's revive our 8000 nerve endings right now. Let's
just do a rotational revival. A little pleasurizing of our vulvas. Going one, going
twice. Now come on, give it to me. Give it to me. Bend your knees. Bend your
knees for the revolution. It’s the old hip revolution called the pleasure revolution.
Okay, that’s good. That’s good. And of course you must do your shy revolution.
Anne: That’s right. That’s what I wanted to do.
Regena: This is just your shy revolution. Come on, give me a little shy revolution. Oh yes.
Okay. Now check her out and look each other in the eye, because it all lives in
looking each other in the eye. Give it to her, look her in the eye. Who wants to
start? You start. You look like you're going to start.
Julie: Okay. Okay Anne, this is hard for me, well I’ll pretend.
Regena: Yeah, show us a little pretending. Start over.
Julie: Okay.
Regena: That was poultry beginning. That was downright poultry. If it doesn’t improve
quickly, you're going to sit down. Yes, flirtation is like plunging off the high dive,
it’s just making the decision. It’s like feeling the power and using the power. Its
feeling the power, it’s using the power. Feel the power.
Julie: Okay. Anne, you're looking gorgeous today. I really like that dress.
Regena: No, you're not feeling it.
Julie: You're right, I'm not.
Regena: You're not. It was poultry.
Julie: Can we have a guy instead?
Regena: I’ll be your guy.
Julie: Okay.
Regena: I’ll be your big daddy man. Yeah, start out flirting with me.
That was good. That was good. That's already better. Can you feel the blast in
you?
Julie: Oh yeah.
Regena: Blast me back with yours. Tell me how cute I am.
Julie: Oh, I tell, you are gorgeous. We’ll be in trouble.
Regena: Now run your fingers through your long luxurious hair. Oh that's good. Now take
that. Oh that’s good. Now send some her way.
Anne: Wow.
Julie: It’s getting really warm in here.
Regena: Tell her what she's like. Come on, keep running your fingers.
Julie: I'm really liking those cute blue eyes.
Anne: My eyes like that.
Regena: You are catching on.
Anne: Is that it? Did I do it?
Regena: I could feel your quiet fire. Did you catch that? That was a little quiet storm. Let's
have another zing round again. Give me a little quiet fire.
Anne: I'm freezing, my fire has froze.
Regena: Okay, we're going to have to unthaw your fire. Tell me how?
Anne: How absolutely fabulous you are?
Regena: Yeah.
Anne: I love the neck line of that shirt.
Regena: Now she's starting to scare me. I like being scared by you. See, it’s a great
training ground that we have with each other because it’s like it’s no
consequences when you flirt with women. Except you have fun, and guess what?
It’s no consequences when you flirt with men, except that you have fun. There's
nothing to do, there's nowhere to go, it’s just all about feeling what a delicious
pleasure it is to be a woman. And I saw you catch fire. You felt that? What is that
like for you to get a little flash of that just now?
Anne: Great. Hot. Felt hot. Yeah, you were very hot. Yeah.
Regena: Yeah. And can you feel that you were in charge of the volume in your heat.
Anne: Aha.
Regena: Excellent. That’s where it all lives. How about you, Julie?
Julie: Yeah, it was exciting.
Regena: In what way?
Julie: Just a turn on.
Regena: Yeah.
Julie: Just like really getting alive about it.
Regena: Can you see yourself taking it out there in the world a little bit.
Anne and Julie: Yeah.
Anne: Where's Max?
Regena: Come to me Max. I feel like you want to give a little something to Max here.
Anne: Well Max, I've been noticing you since I've been here.
Regena: Feel it more.
Anne: Standing next to Regena, it’s easier to flirt with you. You are gorgeous.
Max: You're beautiful too.
Anne: Thank you. Thank you.
Regena: By the way, that flush that just entered her cheeks, that was not spray on. That’s
what we call internal blush from the power source.
Did you want to flirt with Max a little bit?
Julie: I already had my hands on him today. I had the privilege of rubbing his neck and
shoulders while he was doing that for another sister goddess. So I feel pretty
privilege.
Regena: Excellent. Max, you really get around. And by the way, Max is very, very shy.
Julie: That’s nice.
Regena: And he's working it. Because the whole goal is to feel pleasure. And women of
course, they were born to flirt. Flirtation is not only a pleasure for you, but it’s a
pleasure for every single one who has a privilege to encounter you as you swish
yourself around this gorgeous planet of ours. And remember, you must know
pleasure to give pleasure. So go out there and pleasure yourself today.
Group hug.
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