Jennifer: Hey, welcome to another Dan and Jennifer one minute Q and A. that’s starting to
roll off my tongue a little bit.
Dan: I still like corky, but anyway.
Jennifer: I don’t know, we’ll figure it out. You guys help us out, okay. Here’s another
question that we got off our YouTube channel. It’s a very common question, but
one that deserves an answer. Basically when you don’t have enough confidence in
yourself to ask a girl out, how do you get the confidence to ask her out?
Dan: Yeah, I think when guys ask that, they look at the wrong place. You don’t need
confidence to ask her out, the problem is that you don’t have confidence.
Jennifer: He had one job, one. To turn this over.
Dan: Whatever. I told you this should be digital. Whatever. Alright, the problem is not
that you don’t have the confidence to ask her out. The problem really is that you
don’t have the confidence within you, in general. And that’s the thing you want to
work on. You have to believe on what you sell. Any good sales guy will tell you
that if you want to sell something, you got to believe in it. Right? And what
you’re selling is you. You got to believe that you're cool, you're okay. But most
people don’t think that they're cool, that they're okay as they are.
Jennifer: Yeah, most people try to get their confidence from outside approval and you’ll
never get it that way.
Dan: No.
Jennifer: And the second thing you have to do is practice. Practice makes it perfect.
Practice asking girls out. This girl that you want to ask out and afraid too, just do
it. So what if she says no.
Dan: There will be other girls.
Jennifer: You have nothing to lose. And if she says no, keep asking every girl in the street.
Ask her out. Don’t have the confidence to ask her out, ask her a question. Just ask
her anything.
Dan: Yeah and totally, because you want to be comfortable with girls. Go hang out
with girls, hang out all kind of girls. Get comfortable, get a feel of them as people.
Because she's a human being, a person, just like you. Don’t put her on a pedestal.
Bad for her, bad for you. Believe in you, that’s what matter the most.
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