Dan: Today on Ask Dan and Jennifer, we’re talking about how to get more sex n your relationship. I mean, who doesn’t want that? The key to getting more sex in your relationship is, surprise, variety. Seriously, a lot of people, they have sex in the same position, the same way, same time, all the time, every time, blah! Gets boring! Girls like that, right?
Jennifer: No.
Dan: Okay! Variety, variety is a good thing. You want to spice it up. You want to mix thing up in there. It’s all too easy to phone to a – and just get blah! And everybody gets that interested and all of a sudden you're having sex once year on that date again.
Jennifer: It’s our anniversary, its time to have sex again.
Dan: Oh my god. Okay. Now, a very big thing, sex in a long term, believe it or not, sex in a long term committed relationship can actually be a lot more enjoyable than sex with lots of people that you barely know.
Jennifer: Yeah! Face it guys, the first time is really the best time because you don’t know each other.
Dan: Yeah! I mean, yes, its exciting and exploratory and all that but guess what, you can have so much more if you know the other person, you can be your self and you know what they like, they know what you like, you can explore all kinds of really cool things together, again variety, right? Okay, so we’re going to give you some of ideas, now some this steps, these tips that we’re going to talk about come from our friend Dan over at sexgodmethod.com so check them out for tips on how to give women orgasms. Women like those.
Jennifer: And keep in mind, most of the content over there is targeted towards men, so this video is kind of targeted to how guys can spice up their relationship.
Dan: I think they should both know.
Jennifer: And you know, for guys, one of the easiest things you can do is kind of switch between the dominant aggressive male to being romantic in making love, I mean, that’s just so easy to do. Just, you know, don’t do it the same every time. Share your fantasies with each other. You know, we’re always talking about the fantasy box, try some role play, I mean that can be so much fun without stepping outside of your relationship, you can stay together and pretend to be different people, right? Does that make sense?
Dan: Good.
Jennifer: And also they talk a lot about giving her different types of orgasms. Now, I’m not hung up on the different types and this—that and the other, but do it a little differently, you know, stimulate her clitoris, you know, massage her G spot, stuff like that and some things that we have to add to that. And also, try new positions and you're going to have to check our new book coming out and they just changed the title on it, I can’t remember what they did with but its a thousand and one places to have sex. So we’re really going to help you try some new positions and some new places.
Dan: It’s a cool new title though, I like it.
Jennifer: Yes, but its coming out around November time and also check into a hotel for the weekend. Just getting away from the house and away from your responsibilities can really spice things up a lot.
Dan: Yeah! Just take a couple of days at home, you always have something to do, you have email, you have house work, you have this, you have that, they will inevitably come up. Just go into a hotel, even a resort, something in your city. So at the end of the day, the big thing is, spice it up, do something fun and different. Now, we have a question for you guys, what do you do to spice it up, to add variety to your sex life? What do you like to do? What have you heard off? What are some ideas that you have? Just leave a comment.
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