Hi! This is Francisco Bujan from vitalcoaching.com and we talking about cheating for men. Situations where your partner has been cheating or your wife or girlfriend has been cheating and the topic for this video is: How to get your power back when she cheats on you?
I named this video exactly after the title of the e-book I just finish putting online. So, this is really good news for guys who are, you know, this kind of situation where your girlfriend or wife cheats on you. It is very important to have a battle plan or battle strategy when these happens because if you simply risk on emotionally to what is going on at that specific moment, you know, taking quick decisions that will going to influence on the long term. How are you going to be in a relationships especially with this woman and you might make big key mistakes.
So, my advice here is go back to vitralcoaching.com/cheatingformen.htm. I repeat, vitalcoaching.com/cheatingformen.htm. There is any book that is posted now on that page and I give you also a few extra resources, especially if you are in a break up situation. If she decided to break up and took off with another guy or if you decide to work on your relationship together. There is also a set of resources or you know, strategies for that as well and it is a whole program on relationship success for couples.
So, these gives you enough set of strategies on how to deal with that if you really want to get back together. So, there are a whole bunch of resources that you can get directly on that page. But I want to tell you about cheating situations or what we can call it “Cheating Crisis in a relationship”. It is that before you take her back into your life. Before you give her another chance, you have to find out exactly how she stands herself in this relationship and regarding directly to yourself.
Is she apologizing about her behavior or not? Is she in a position where she regrets really cheating and she is ready to give it another try, to be with you again. This is the first thing that you have to find out because when the woman cheats it can be her way of saying “I want to break up with you. I no longer want to be with you” or it can be her way of, you know, simply wanted to experiment something outside of the relationship and once she tries it out, she knows straight away that it was a big mistakes.
So, this is the first question you did not answer for, you know. Does she regret what she did? Or does she think is just a normal behavior and it is okay? That is a first thing to find out. The second thing to find out is for you to understand and know directly, if it is something that you want to accept or not in your relationship. I mean, many guys are there consider that, a woman cheating on them is going to be a deal breaker.
This is it, there is no excuse, there is no forgiveness, and this is it. The relationship is over when these happens. That could be you but at the same time, you think, well we have been married, you know, for 25 years and her cheating once only is not a deal breaker. I still trust her, I still love her, I still want to be with her and she regrets her behavior. She regrets what she did. Honestly, I can see that therefore I am going to give her another chance. So, you see that there are a few directions or a few strategy or a few lines of evolution before your couple your relationship and yourself, after that.
So, I cover a set of strategies on how to deal with these different situations that you might be facing and to tell you the truth, when you go online and make a search about this topic. It is stunning to realize that there is very little actually of that on a specific topic. You might end up being in a situation where there is hardly any battle plan or any strategy that helps you deal with that and my goal here was to feel that gap, and give you these extra set of resources, so that you have something to hold on. Really some form of battle strategy or direction.
The reason why we call it that is because I have been coaching guys live on this type of situations. Not just break ups but really situations where both men and women want it the relationship to work and you know, this is my way of giving you these set of strategy or at one rather than you having to sign up for one on one coaching sessions for me because this is sometimes more expensive or you look sometimes you cannot afford it and you would like just a set of strategy that you can work on.
So, this was my goal, I put all that together and now, you are free to go and get it. So, go back to the site and yeah, go ahead my advice is go and get it so that you get your power back as soon as possible. Take care and have a good day. Bye, bye.
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