How to Give A Lingham Massage

Lingham Massage The Secret of Tantric Touch – Sensual Pleasure What is Lingham? • Tantric word for Penis • Means “Wand of Light” i.e. a Tool for consciousness What is Tantra? • Ancient Philosophy from Ancient India • The Kama Sutra is part of Tantra • ‘Tantra’: refers to ‘expansion’ of conscience, awareness • Tantra involves: practices, sensuality and sexuality: for healing, intimacy, pleasure and bliss • The ultimate goal: connection with lover and the divine What does Lingham Massage Involve? • Tantric pleasure practice • Orgasm should be prolonged so that a longer state of arousal maintained • This longer state of pleasure and arousal is said to be healing, energizing, and promotes higher awareness Lingham Massage Tips • Should be done, after 15-20 minutes of body massage • Leave intimates to the end! • Use only cold press organic oils (no essential oils) near or on the intimate areas eg. Almond, sesame, olive • Get your tool ready: towels, sheets, candles, music • Both of you can prepare by having a bath/shower to relax The Massage • After the body massage, encourage him to breathe slowly and deeply for a few minutes to relax • Get drip warm (not hot!) oil into your hands and gently drip over lingham and testes • Start by massaging the lingham from the head down to the base and back again (repeat a few times) • Massage the testes in gentle circular motions • Keep eye contact and use the other hand to massage/stroke inner thighs, stomach • Use a firm gliding stroke from head to base and back. Do this a few times • Vary speed and pressure • Change the stroke • If he becomes aroused, slow down or stop and encourage him to breath slowly and deeply Prolong the Pleasure • Keep him in an arouse state for as long as possible • Bring him close to climax, then stop or slow down and encourage him to breathe deeply • Plan your Lingham massage to last a minimum of 30 minutes New Ideas You could also experiment with prostate massage! For more ideas visit: www.erotic-massage-guide.com