Female: We tend to fixate and speaking as a woman myself and I know I fix in on certain things like hair, we can relax and stop worrying about things like that because men are not going to pay as much attention to our make up and our hairs as we think they will. He’s see her figure but then he’s going to be back on the face, it’s going to be paying attention to our personality. Her smile looking to her eyes, her body language whether she is moving into a space maybe touching him, how she—what she’s conveying to him and what energy she’s conveying to him.
Katyrena: You’re obsessing about the mole on your face or the fact that you didn’t get to the perfect necklace with your outfit or you’re worried about hair that’s going to translate into a self confidence, right?
Female: Absolutely if we fixate men and women too much on these external things we can create a lot of insecurities, a lack of self confidence and that’s going to impair our dating efforts and the results that we’re getting we may not accept dates. We may not be getting out there because we are anticipating rejection.
Laughing around with this cloud of insecurities thinking, this guy won’t want to go out with me so we sabotage ourselves. What we need to do is just stop focusing on our flaws and start focusing on our strengths and realize that everybody got flaws.
Kateryna: Alright good advice and I don’t think it needs to be said but our first blind date was a success for these two.
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