How to Keep Threesomes Safe

Jennifer Hey, this question is from John in California. Dear Dan and Jennifer I just want to say I think it is great what you two do. Dan Thank you! Jennifer My question is my girlfriend and I, want to have a threesome with another female and we have got one lined up. You are lucky. Do not take that for granted. Dan Yes, you go. Jennifer Yes, I know how to use a condom but what about oral and other kinds of play. We do not want to come home with some kind of STD. Do you have any advice for protection? Dan Well, there is always the full body to let that play such. But that is for other types of play. Jennifer Different play Dan No, listen up. Okay. We have what we call the sex safety scale, SSS, right. The Sex Safety Scale, you have complete and other celibacy and then you have masturbation and then you have just manometer spells and with threesome, and you are all groups ______ (00:01:19) must be on the way other side of the room there. Anyway, monogamy is all the CDF so safe as well because if fault goes way and ideally, you can know where your spells has been and would have been with. And you know, the time that you know of you, you can know who you have been playing with, who you would have been. Last time they have been tested, or if they need to be tested. Now with someone else, that turns to be all kinds of variables in there. You need to talk. Jennifer Yes. Make sure that the three of you are talking. Dan Not just you and your spells then the other comes in and nobody is talking about anything. You know talking about what is and is not okay before hand, right! Jennifer Yes, is that whole thing giving you a breath and time to think, right. Do not just go into it while and see what happens, okay. That is disaster waiting to happen. Dan And count the loses Jennifer if you are going to have sex with another person, there are a lot of different things you can do to improve the levels of safety. Condoms of course, you know there are male condoms and female condoms used during intercourse, during anal sex, during oral sex, you know. If you really want to have that extra level of protection, wash your hands, if you are putting your hands in place as where you may not want them to get mix up, go wash your hands. The other option is to use [inaudible] toys instead of actual penetration, that is another option and you could go to complete extremes, okay. There is even something called the dental damn. You know it is like latex thing. They have latex cover everything they say, okay. Dan Full body place and ups ahead Jennifer So back to dance full body place, so just be careful and be smart! Dan Know who are you having sex with, know where they have been, who they have been around or in and here is what they say. Know where your playing friends have been and who have been they are playing with. And remember, if they have been sexually tested which is always a good idea, that test is good as of the moment the test was done. If it was three weeks ago and if you have sex with few other people in the meantime, the test is no good. Jennifer So, we are not trying to scare you, but just a reality. Dan You just have to keep in mind, inform this always a good thing.