How to Know if He Likes You - FOR WOMEN :)

Hi! This is Francisco Bujan from vitalcoaching.com. And, we are talking about dating success for women. Our topic for this video is how to know if a guy likes you. This is probably a question that you ask yourself frequently right? There is this is this guy you like and you see him kind of looking at you back and maybe he even comes to you and starts talking to you. The question is how can you recognize if he likes you? Well, most of the times when you are in social situations between men and women there is always some sexual attraction, there is always, it is always there. Sometimes it will be expressed, sometimes not, sometimes the guy will have a girlfriend or we do not like to be taken therefore the attraction is still there, might still be there but he is not going to take any action because of that. Okay, so the question that you will have most of the times is what are the body signs? The body signs that he is going to express and, how can I recognize those signals? The truth is that if you look at the guy he is not going to kind of touch us here, to let you know that he is attracted to you. The fact that he comes directly to you, the fact that he starts talking to you signifies already that there is at least something for you for attraction. The fact that he is there already talking to you, the fact that he is interested into your life into what you do is already dignifying that there is attraction. Other signs are simply look, smile, the fact that there is a connection in any way signifies already that there is some form of attraction. Now, what is very important to remember as well is that you have different degrees of attraction. You have different degrees of flirting. When a guy starts flirting with you, comes to you and start teasing you in a playful way does not mean that he wants to go all the way to have babies with you or marry you very often it will mean that he is just enjoying the crosses of connecting with you it is something that you can enjoy. Now, sometimes when you start getting to know each other, this is going to be taken to the next level. You are going to start dating and eventually have a serious long-term relationship together. That is a possibility, but before this happens the sexual attraction, interplay between the two of you is already signifying that there is an interest. And yes, maybe he thinks well you know, she might be a potential date, she might be somebody with who I hook a relationship. The next step is to take a small step forward. Therefore, if you want to know where he stands the goal is first to get to know each other. You are going to start interacting, you are going to start chatting, having fun in a playful way you are going to tease him like I mentioned in my other videos. And then the next step is try to go and have a coffee together, try to go and go in a night date together. If this goals work, and there is going to be a chemistry, eventually he will build up attraction, he will build up interest and maybe decide to spend more time with you and eventually have a relationship with you. Now, what you have to rely as well it is that, it is not starting from the very beginning, yes eventually you can have a crush. You can have love at first sight and you see somebody and you will realize then that this is the person with who you want to spend the rest of your life well it is real to be aware right? Most of the time it is a build up, it is something that you consciously create together eventually with the attraction which is like a little stream in the beginning. Little flower between two people can start growing because you nurture it, you take care of I and you consciously build up the attraction between the two of you. So, you have but to play in that, try to take passive role and thinking it is either he is attracted or not. You can realize that you cannot be the architect. you can build up energy between two people but consciously feeling it. By consciously being sexy, being fun, and responding in a way that creates attraction between the two of you rather than simply seeking back and hoping that he is attracted to you, you can actually create that attraction, you can generate that attraction. Another idea here, which you might want to be a bit challenging to realize that a guy’s reaction those can be words or the attitude for a woman is almost predictable. If you put your right ingredients in your being in the way you relate to man in the dating world, then man are going to be attracted to you. You have to realize that it is a little bit like an alchemist play, it is really you put the right ingredients and attraction happens because of that. Okay? Remember that. You take care for now bye, bye.