How to Manage a Long Distance Relationship Work

Tamsen: Hey everybody, Matt and Tamsen here. Okay, today we’re going to talk about long distance relationships a lot of people having now a days, a lot of people meet online do you think they can actually work? I myself a pattern I don’t know. Matt: Well see is it work if we go ahead— Tamsen: But I do think that they can work of both people are dedicated to it and some people actually enjoy them because to gives the other personal for him to stay. He gives him some space during a week so like five days a week, you know they are working or whatever and then in the weekends they get together I definitely see that work there's no question. Matt: They are bound for failure it’s a waste of time unless you really are committed to being— Tamsen: I mean monetarily if somebody might have the choice. Matt: Being unsatisfied, frustrated and annoyed if you like those three things and maybe their work but I've tried, I date a girl on Pittsburg once and I travel from Philadelphia all the way across the State every Friday and it was never exactly what I expected I always disappointed and I was always frustrated. Tamsen: Maybe that was the girl you're dating sweetheart. Matt: Now, it wasn’t the girl it was the five or seven hours train, you know, transportation it took me to get there that was the nightmare and when I got there was no way she going to lift up to the grief that that it took for me to get there. Tamsen: All right, why I totally don’t agree I think on just since relationships can work I think at some point you have to figure that. [Voice Overlap] Matt: You can't walk outside and find someone in your neighborhood in your city you have to go to a different state to find someone? Tamsen: Soul mates might live another— [Voice Overlap] Matt: Soul mate—can we, we’re going to end this one. Absolutely they can't work/ Tamsen: They work, don’t worry about it.