Hi! This is Francisco Bujan from vitalcoaching.com. We are talking about dating successful women and the topic this video is: How to meet him one on one?
Imagine that you are attracted by this guy to this guy and you already know him. You are within a group of friends from work together or you are socially very often interacting and now what you like to do is to meet him one on one.
The first thing to realize is that, friends can be very possessive, right? When you are within a group of friends sometimes they would just follow you everywhere and it is almost impossible to get one-on-one time with the guy you are attracted to.
What you have to do is very simple. You have to invite him, personally for something where you know he is going to show up by himself and the best way to do that is to give a last minute invitation.
For instance when you are for instance out there shopping, you are in town, you just give him a quick call and you say “hey, I am over there, meet me for coffee” for instance. Something like that would work.
Another way to do that is to invite for something where you just have two tickets for instance it might be a game, theatre play or a concert where you just have two tickets and that there could be only one other person.
Another way to do that is to invite him at your place. Dinner, one on one for instance, you can tell him, you can say, I would like to have sometime with you one on one only without anybody being involved.
If he likes the idea, he is of course going to respond positively and that sometimes he is just not aware that you like him one on one so he does nor really know how to respond to that.
So, what he would do very often for instance, if you would give him an indication, if you say, we should do something maybe on Saturday. He would call all his friends and get the message out that something is going on and that there is a big party happening and therefore, you are going to miss an opportunity to be one on one with him.
Now, It is very important not to claim him, right? If he enjoys being with friends or your girlfriends wants to stay just enjoy being around all the time, and it is important that you give those people around those friends the gift of your presence together, and even when you are with a group context. You can still be flirting with him. You can still exchange lots of nice things together even though, it is not just strictly one on one. You can go dancing, you can still be flirty, playful, you know tease him and etcetera. This will have a great back on the way you relate to each other.
Now, the chemistry even within that context is going to keep on building, okay. Yeah, that is it for now, that is it for this advice. I hope you enjoyed. Take care and bye, bye.
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