Female: Do you worry about money? Are you afraid you do not have enough or that you lose everything you do have? Professional coach Robert Silverstone examined popular money myths and how to break free of them.
Robert Silverstone: We tell ourselves these things that I am hopeless with money. That money slips through my fingers; that money is a struggle; we tell us all these things and then we have to ask ourselves, is that true? Is it actually true that you are hopeless with money and the chances are almost is not even true.
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And yet you are telling yourself, this is ‘true’. Well, then you are not going to convince yourself that was true. That is going to be your story; that is going to be your experience. So, what are you saying, so it is, in order to have what you want is a better relationship with money. What we have to do is rewrite the script.
We have to reprogram, recondition some of those all and inherited limiting beliefs, false belief of the past and change into new liberating beliefs that really do take you into the relationship with money that you like to have and there are many ways to do that. The first things that to recognize that if you are feeling constricted around money.
If there is a tightness around the relationship with money that tightness becomes if you are imagine a garden host for example and that garden host is design to have water flowing through it freely. Now, if you put a twist or kink or knot in that host there is no way for the water to go it is comes out as a dribble at the other end.
What we do is metaphorically is we take the kinks out of the host were a little bit instructions to remove the constrictions that might be there. So, that this flow of money comes to and through you easily and effortlessly. First of all we find out what is the instruction are in many cases the obstructions ale limiting delays.
I am no good with money, money is a struggle I never have it when I get up. Money is going to go away this is the kind of things that are often here. And we take one of those beliefs for example when we say okay is it true that you do not have money right now and of course forever be that is never true.
They might have much as they like to have but it is never true that they do not have it. So, that is the first thing the fact as we do have it and whatever is we have what we focus on. Okay I have money are you going to get through the day, oh yes I am going to get through the day. Are you going to get through the week? Well, sure. You were going to get through the month, yeah. How about six month, I am not sure so at least we established what a time is, that we going us that reality checks.
I just have someone of the other days I do make well, I got money enough for the six months and I am scared to death. That six months that will be gone and I sleep well that means that you are fine today. So, let us well your fine, take care what needs to be done and let us do some of these. Removing the obstructions and that is how we started to go to work with it.
Recognizing that their were some obstructions, some of the came by him honestly through his family, through his teachers even patriotic, political affiliations or his religion because they are all teaches thing about money some of its not very helpful and we need to find out what is helpful, we need to get into that place.
That says what I do because I have control of me to change my relationship with money.
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