Melanie Raposo: Hi everybody I'm Melanie Raposo, and welcome to the pregnancy show, you can't talk about a New Year without mentioning a New Year's resolution. And normally when some one makes a new years resolution they give something up, but today we are doing things a little differently, with the help of life coach and Author Judy Librach we give you moms out there some positive new years resolutions you'll want to bye, bye to help you and your family have a less stressful and have your year 2008.
Judy Librach: But I've always done with my husband is bigger one 12.5 that our get a ways, he is along many moons as I call them, and ten if they are really, really important to just go away even if its an hour or wait, even its to a hotel in the city lets get a baby sitter, and take that time off, and just for then I and also just can even do at home after the kids go to bed, make that time special have a romantic candle light dinner, and do fun things.
My husband is a doctor, so some times we have to have a romantic times in our special times at 3 in the morning, but that's okay, what ever the time is, find that time spark it out make it happen and say nice things to your partner, you know try to when they come home with the end of the day give them a compliment, in the morning always give a kiss good bye, when you get up in the morning and always give you know a kiss at night before you go to bed, I find the morning kiss lingers all day long you think about that kiss and you think wow, I'm looking for it to that kiss continuing.
So it's a great way to start the day and for every negative thing you are going to say, and it's the same thing I can put parenting, say 5 positive things, if you have to say one thing like, honey what happen today you drive your keys down to my car key stuck down and even I noticed to get the kids just go, that's okay, make sure you follow it up with 5 great compliments and 5 great positive things.
At the end of the day your kids get the greatest comfort, that absolute number one comfort from watching you'll be tied as a couple, and being closed together and as my husband always says there going to be gone day out ask you know in college, the university doing their thing and we have to stay connected. So very, very important and they get huge reassurance and huge feeling of coziness, from watching you guys be together a lot of people don't realize that they think the kids just want hugs and kisses all the time and curdles and security from you, and of course that is saying if they get a huge feeling of reassurance from seeing you together as a couple without a doubt, holding hands, you know saying nice things to each other, all that concern.
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