How to Reach an Orgasm During Sex

In this episode, the women talk about their favorite position to reach orgasm. Female1: Oh! Being on top, definitely. I dance to—and I do like African dance, the whole grinding. Being on top for me really helps because I do feel like if he is on top, I’m also more restricted, I mean, that is good too. But when I'm on top, I can really pleasure, I can be on control. I know it works for me. If I’m like stimulating my clit while being on top and moving in a way that’s good to me, then he’s just kind of lying there. I’m doing my own bits like masturbating but with a guy. Female 2: And I actually kind of get frustrated about it but I found that most times that I orgasm with a partner I’m also self stimulating and it’s—I’ve had orgasms without self stimulation but barely and so I definitely enjoyed being on top. I think being on top and turn around and so then I can also be self stimulating and bending and whatnot. And I think on my hands and knees, doggy style while self stimulating. And I find too that with a partner, just like masturbation you can get in a routine, I had a partner where I found out that I could orgasm this way with this partner. And then I found like, every time we had sex, we’ve try other things but then we’d always go back to this position because I knew that that work. Female 3: What have been something you're going to? Female 4: Oh! Definitely when he is on top. It just go to, like we can just be having sex the whole time and try lots of different things and they all feel good and I’ve had orgasms in other positions but like, we go to positions, he is on top and like there are some manual stimulation on my part. And its just like, wham bam, take him out, like I am done, done. So done, its great. Female 3: And you—how is he positioned so that you're able to stick your hand there? Female 4: I put my legs up a little bit sort of like, you know, like a crab or something, I don’t know, that’s probably the wrong visual. Female 3: On his—like your feet are like on his shoulders, kind of. Female 4: Yeah! Like on his shoulders but not on his shoulders, like that level. So then there's that space, you know, so he has his space to move around if he needs to, but I’ve got my zone that I can do my thing and like he can just be there. Female 3: Okay! How often are people—can they cum through intercourse without manually stimulating yourself? Female 5: I can like go a lot if I’m on top. Female 3: If you're on top? Female 5: Like that’s the go to and no matter what if I'm on top I can— Female 3: You can position yourself, your clit. Now, are you sitting straight up or you kind of leaning forward? Female 5: Leaning forward. Female 3: Okay! What kind of motion are you tend to be using? Are you doing more of an up-down, forward-back? Female 5: Up-down and forward-back. Female 3: Okay!