Female: We are born from the essence of peer joys.
Male: It is our nature to be happy.
Female: Throughout our lives we look the ways to be happy.
Male: We continue looking for ways to be happy as we grow up and as we get older.
Female: These children will begin to develop the pattern of misinterpreting events in our lives. This traumatically limits our ability to be happy.
Male: The pattern begins when something happens that stimulates strong feelings of fear, confusion or sadness in us. Such as inviting friends to party and no one showing up or asking help and hearing do not bother me, I am busy.
As a example:
Female: One day while you are playing in your room. You are interrupted by the sound of your parents arguing. You hear your mother scream; “I just cannot take it anymore” and then, a little a while later the door slams. You feel scared you rush to the window only to see your mother getting the car with the suits case and drive away.
Male: In your fear and confusion you misinterpreted your mother living and beside it did not means people only care about themselves and you must be unlovable.
Female: This makes your heart to see the good things in your life because your so busy protecting yourself with feeling does pain ever again. You end to focusing on whether people being selfish. You avoid situations where you need to depend on others. Can you worry about getting too close to anyone?
Male: This habit of guarding against selfish people and feeling unlovable becomes a limiting focus. Every time you focus your attention on what you are guarding being selfish or looking the evidence that you are unlovable its limits your ability to be happy.
Female: Of course, sooner or later you find someone you care about deeply and start a relationship.
Male: However, has in most relationships sometimes the other person is late; sometimes they do not call when they say they will or they forget to do what you have asking too.
Female: With your limiting focus the people are selfish and you are unlovable. You misinterpret what happens and tell yourself that your partner was rude and inconsiderate, and the relationship is distance fell anyway because everyone need sooner or later.
Male: You start feeling of scared and confuse, and to protect yourselves you become close and distant. You begin criticizing the other person and blaming them to the problems in the relationship.
Female: And the relationship ends painfully.
Male: The painful ending of your relationship reinforces your original decision that people only care about themselves and you must be unlovable.
Female: As you grow up this pattern of misinterpreting what happens repeats itself over and over again. You make decision after decision the further limits your ability to be happy.
Male: What you focus on your attention on growth?
Female: From a very young age we have been trained to turn our attention of ways from our natural ability to be happy. We have been thought to take care of ourselves by focusing on whose to blame and deciding who is right and who is wrong.
Male: What would be possible for you if you are able to reconnect with your natural ability to be happy?
Female: Would you focus on having better relationships?
Male: Could be your relationship to be more honest and intimate?
Female: Would you feel more live?
Male: Could you relay on people more often?
Female: Would you feel more comfortable asking for help?
Male: What would make you happier?
Female: What you focus on attention on gross?
Male: Focus your attention on what most important to you.
Female: Focus on what you want.
Male: Focus on what you love.
Female: Start reclaiming your natural ability to be happy today.
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