Hi, this is Dr. Diana Kirschner with Ask Your Tango, answering your dating and relationship questions.
Our question for today is from Dee-Dee. How do you tell if a guy is interested in you or just a fling?
If you jump into bed with somebody, you're already having a fling and chances are, it will tend to kill off that relationship because you're getting too close too soon, it’s too hot, you don’t really know each other; it’s scary. So, you want to take your time and have self-control, you’ll tell them on the second date, you know, they are having a great time but you're taking things slow and you're not available. You're not available sexually, you're going be kissing, canoodling, it’s very flirtatious, it’s wonderful but you're really not available for sex. The ones who are in it, for the long term and they're not just in it for a fling will stay with you and they will want to create a relationship with you and those are the ones that really work out well.
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