Francisco: Hi! This is Francisco Bujan from vitalcoaching.com and we are here about Phoebe and there she is sharing some of her dating experiences with guys. Again, she is not an experience she is not a PhD in Psychology. She is just a simple girls, sorry.
Phoebe: Not that kind of simple honey.
Francisco: No, she is actually pretty smart. She is been giving all already a few tips that I think if you did not listen to them yet guys you have to go and check the other videos and stuff because there are some very good points here that I think every single man on this planet should hear. So what I want to ask you now for this five minutes video or audio is tell me about some dating experiences that you have with man where you thought “Wow, this guy is bottom”. What he is doing right now are really worth with me triggers emotion feelings that make me one to be with him. What were really some successful dating experiences for you?
Phoebe: For me, manners is like he number one and I think when a guy ask you out in date so some guys are like, he want to go out in a date and it is like you know like that. When a guy would ask you in manner of formal and polite way and not necessary expect she is to say yes. He is looking for you to give the answer where some guys just as you meet and then you going out with them. So if like advice of flight way “Oh.. I like to invite you to dinner. And you say “Oh... Thank you. You know I have lied”. Where some guys that you also when you gout that means we go on something like,… It is like things like that polite is in consideration and always assuming that because girls says yes, or she is going to do this or she is going to do that. It is like, they are like waiting for you to give them the answer and given you the opportunity to say on that without any sort of likely professions afterwards. But manage, you manage this for me the best. And also the ability to organize the dates about having to call you five minutes so asking what do you think. As of, if the guys like, I am going to take this woman out somewhere he is organized everything. You do not have to worry about come and pick you up if you have car or if not he will gets taxi. Basically ,the date is all that about you in joining the date you do not have to worry about anything so you actually free taught about how he is want to stay to run and it is all, so I feel comfortable on a date.
Francisco: Okay, so you feel that when a guy really takes charge of the date it is actually a very comforting things for you.
Phoebe: Definitely, because I think people get mix up with men, if men takes charge of them that must be dominate him, it is no, it is not. It is about taking his responsibility for what you going to do. You can invite some girl out on date it shows responsibility to organized that dates make sure that date is a god day obviously, if the person is contributing to the pleasure of being side date. But I just think some guys are just like having about a clue of the execute of how execute of how as a personal and how to treat that person with on a date. And that you have the thing the best date will be just dinner or there is something more original. Sometimes we look for ideas, right. And we all take you on a balloon ride or…
Phoebe: Well, yes, it all depends on how much is the money before chat us because of he is obviously he can go out a lot of money. But it is not talking about the money, it is about originality and folk, for example if you cannot afford to take someone out to dinner you could let make a date on a picnic and can make some sandwiches or some nice food in front. If we place the set and take the girl on a date, like that. That would require originally, creativity and folk which a lot of dice do not seems to have and the most guys is the best what they date you notes of dinner will go of what you form and that is the first thing amazing. I mean I can do that myself. I can do that of my girlfriends what seen, how interesting is that. It is not interesting. You have not spoke about anything you need a final look we got a likes of what she likes doing I mean a quite enough to about ding persons. So if a guys has somewhere working up, she reduce some thing. I will be more happy you going to just going to set and what she feel. Well, I can just do that anyway. Do I mean a not that is required no for actual. The more original a guy.
Francisco: And would you be ever to be happy, would you be happy with the guys inviting you to his place to have some dinners for you. Do you think this is romantic?
Phoebe: Then in depends because obviously, you do not want go to guys place straightly because, it could be circularly. I think it is not.
Francisco: Once it is too far. Well, it is sound like really great things. Hey, we come to end of these five minutes. We will be back with more in the next video. For now, if you are guys and listening to this and you want to hear all tips, you can go back to vitalcoaching.com/DatingForMan.htm and everything you need is right there. Take care. And we will be back in a minute. Take care, bye-bye.
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