Hi! And, this is Francisco Bujan from vitalcoaching.com. We are talking about breakups for men. And, the topic for this with you is “How to get overgo or how to move on after breakup”.
This is a very important topic because there are dozens of guys out there who end up being in the breakup situation kind of wanting to get back together with their X, and therefore they stay, stacked in this breakup zone, this breakup are here for really long time.
I mean sometimes, you might be surprise to speak with a friend who did breakup for 2 years or 3 years ago and he is still talking about his X. I mean like, as if she was going to come back, short again his life and starts rebuilding relationship with him.
And if this is happening to you right now, you have to listen to this. This is really important. If you stay in this breakup zone, you are really messing up your life. What you want is very simple, you want to get over your X very, very fast.
I am not saying that you do not have to feel sad, you do not have to mourn a little bit the lost for sometime, but really, staying in it for more than 30 days or for more than a month, this really a waste of time.
It impacts negatively on your life. It impacts the negatively on your carrier, social life or your love life and on your general level of happiness. Basically, you stay stacked and the reason why you stay stack is because there is still hope of getting back together with your X.
Most of the times you got really the cause, you are stack on the past rather then being open on the future. And, what I want to give you here is first, a “power kick”, right?
I want to tell you, any man wake up! This is very important: you do not have to stay in this breakup zone for over the kneading. Even if she is calling you, wanting to stay friends with you, wanting to be around you because she feels comforted because of what you shared in the past. It gives a little bit of the sense of comfort of security when she is around you because she is used to your presence. So, it not to changing but at the same time, she is not saying, “okay, let us get back together”.
So, if she is calling you frequently, you want to go for greetings or wants to go to movies with you, it does not mean that she wants to get back together. It means that, “I still enjoy, part of what we use to share in the past and I still, I like you as a friend but, I am not planning to get back together with you”.
Even if she is already dating somebody or getting married, even sometimes you are still going to be in your mind. A bit confused about what she wants and they “Why” she is still your life.
So, what you have to do is very simple: you have to focus on the past. You have to wake up. You have to listen to this message that I am giving you there and realized that to win this breakup challenge, you need a set of winning strategy through you.
If you go to any form of battle, we thought of strategy. We thought battle plan. Eventually, you are going to make mistakes. So, what you want is first, a set of strategy. You want a battle plan. And then, start taking action consistently in the direction of rebuilding your life.
So, what you can do right now is very simple: go back to vitalcoaching.com. This is where you will find breakup system. You will see that there is a link on the home page, it is called “breakup for men”. Or, you can also go directly to vitalcoaching.com/breakupformen.htm.
You write there, you get this material. It is packed with energy, with strategies. It will give you power kicks instantly.
The work on this material for a week, it is any book that you can print. You can read it, it is just how the beggars you know (Laughs) it is printed in relatively wide letter sent. So, it is not something that is going to take you hours and hours of process. Really, it takes you maybe 30 minutes to rate it. You are going to be received this kind of power kicks straight away.
Get this ebook, you listen to the audios. You go on the forum, check the situations that other people have been facing. You check articles that eventually if after one week of working with this material you still have questions, which I doubt. Normally, this covers from 95% or even 99% of the breakup situations that you might be facing.
If you meet her by coincidence, if you have to work with her, if you have children together and you feel divorcing. All the situation, everything is covered. Honestly, I think coaching dozens of guys on that and I did cover exactly everything.
So, go to the site. Get this material. Work on it for a week my guarantees that you will be missed of what happens next. Take care, and have a great day.
Bye-bye.
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