How to get over being dumped - FOR MEN ONLY!
Hi, this is Francisco Bujan from vitalcoachin.com. We are talking about break ups for men and the reason why I am recording this is because I want you to listen very carefully.
If you are a man and if you are in break up situation, you are divorcing , your wife left you or your girlfriend just took of with somebody else, you have to listen to these very carefully.
A break up is a challenge. It is a battle situation. It is a crisis because you are going to be transitioning to different stage mind, a different position in your life and what you need to win at this challenge is a battle plan is a battle strategy.
So, the first thing that you have to realize is that you can stay within the victim role thinking that life is unfair, that this should not have been happening for a long period of time. You can stay within this mind set of the victim for years sometimes really. If you have a friend who did you know whose girlfriend left sometime ago yet sometimes you are going to hear this friend talking about his ex years after break up and this have does not have to be that way.
If you are right now in this position, you have to listen to this and take action right away. This is a path means window that you give me and I am really thankful for that, but the next step is for you take action ready. To do something about it rather that taking this passive a victim role thinking that it is unfair, that it should not now be happening, that you are soul mates and this is that this is not you know suppose to be happening. It is happening. This is real. There are only reason why do we get hurt is because you do not react facing up. You stay with these things kind of victim position hoping that the situation would change or that your ex would come back. She is gone. In 95-99 % of the case is this is it. You have to look into the future not into the past.
What I want to give you is a set of strategies. It is a battle plan. This is why I want you to be very, very careful with what I am going to say.
I am going to read for you just one testimonial, one short success story that I received. I received dozens of them, but I just have time to read only one so that you get the sense of what happens.
Hello Francisco, I just bought your rebook and download it all the MP3 files I cannot tell you are a straight shooter who gives practical advice on relationship issues. I am so glad I have found your website. I had done at a Google search for breaking up alternatives and found you.
Once again, thank you for your dedication and compassion for us guys out there who was sincerely trying to built and keep healthy satisfying relationships. Best regards.
Okay. The reason why I read you this is because it is just one of many success stories I want you to tell you that this real. There are lots of guys worked from this material
And they had successful and great results really. I did see that probably 80-90 % of guys could really work on that in over pay after month and really get back 80% of that power. That is what this is about the raising back your live lost power so that you are back to your true self as soon as possible. You do not have need to break to stay within this break ups so on for longer than need it, this would be a big mistake to simply stay within this victim role and all dress. So you have to really focus your energy and what I am going to give you in this system is a battle plan. Okay?
So what I want you to do is very simple. You go back to vitalcoaching.com\breakup for man.htm. I repeat vitalcoaching.com\breakupforman.htm; you will see that there is a sign of page there where you can get a set of MP3 of yours, any book you will have access to the form you gets extra articles and you have also the possibility to get in touch with me for a one on one coaching. I honestly I believe that probably 80% of guys would not needs it. Within a week to the months you would be back to your true self and be able to face really what comes in the future for you and be able to embrace your future.
Get rid of the past, let go of the past and really embrace what comes in the future. Again, go back to my sites straight away, but this is a window of opportunity. You might not hear this message again in the future. This is a one time thing. If you take action now you will be reading this message with you within like a couple of meeting
So, go ahead this will really give you the power of boost, the power kick that you out of this victim role and give you a set of strategies to win this challenge. You take care and have a good day. Bye-bye.
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