Hello this is Scott Paterson with another Dating and Attracting Podcast and Videocast from ChickMagnet101.com, the site where you can get a free E-book on 50 Tips to Attract Women. In today’s lesson I am going to talk about “Get rid of her boyfriend in six simple steps”. Let us get started. The one question I get all the time from my readers goes something like this “I like, or have just met a woman who is great but has a boyfriend. What can I do to get rid of the boyfriend and make her like me?” Well, these guys are pretty frustrated because many great women are already taken and maybe you face the same situation. If so, pay close attention because I am about to reveal my 6-Step System for making women forget her boyfriend and want to be with you.
Step number one: Understand the situation. Before you try to neutralize a boyfriend you must explore your own relationship with this girl. If you find that you are in the friend zone then her boyfriend would not be the obstacle. In other words, she will not want to date you, even if she does not have a boyfriend. So, even if she ditches the boyfriend, she will end up dating other guys, when you are in the friend zone, you must first take steps towards making herself a sexual threat. Don’t act like a friend, act like a potential dating partner.
Step number two: Ignore the boyfriend. My first advice about the boyfriend is to ignore him. Don’t bring him up or don’t talk about him. If she only mentioned the boyfriend once then she is probably not that interested in him. Don’t let the boyfriend be an obstacle, instead continue to work on your attraction and flirting techniques with this girl.
Step number three: Never mock her boyfriend. Now if she mentions her boyfriend multiple times you have to switch tactics. To make her interested you have to change your mindset and convince her that you represent she has missed out on her life. But one thing you should do is never mock or ridicule her boyfriend, by doing this you only make her defend him which is the last thing you want. My advice is to be different. If she mentions him, say nice things and talk about how wonderful he sounds which brings us to this next step.
Step number four: Talk about how great he is. Once a woman starts talking about her boyfriend ask questions about him. Then as the conversation evolves exaggerate his positive qualities to incredible levels. In fact talk about him like he is a god. A great technique I recently discovered is saying something like this to a woman. You guys sound so cute together. I can totally see you together in 10 years married with like five kids and a nice little house in the suburbs. When you use this technique you are lodging on to her fear of losing her independence and sense of adventure. As a result she will start to wonder if she is never going to have fun again.
Step number five: Tell her that you would make a terrible boyfriend. Once you are on the top of her boyfriend, tell her how you would be a horrendous boyfriend. Compare yourself at the wonderful aspects of her boyfriend and tell her why you are different. With this tactic, you want to describe yourself as an adventurous guy who has a fun life and would never settle down with one woman. You want to make her think that you are a fun person that is always having great times.
Step number six: Talk about your adventures. Once you have established yourself as a guy who could be a bad boyfriend. You have to make another transition. You should tell her that you are not boyfriend material but you would at least be a provider of fun times and excitement. Basically, you are saving yourself up as a guy who would make a lousy boyfriend but will be interesting to be around. By combining these Six-Step System with fundamental attraction place, the way we proceed as a guy who can provide women with excitement. Since many of them are relationship out of convenience she will change her mindset and think of you in a sexual manner and once a woman sees you in this light. She will be attracted towards you and your life style. And you can slip in there and steel her away from her boyfriend.
If you want to know more, I provide 50 Tips for meeting, attracting, dating and seducing women in my free E-Book Attraction Mastery and you can find this at ChichMagnet101.com. Until next time this has been Scott Paterson, thank you.
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