Hi! This is Francisco Bujan, I am from vitalcoaching.com. We are talking about dating success for women and the topic for this video is, How to know if your ex still likes you. I know the cool question that was posted on my channel, thanks for asking. And next we usually still have feelings for you no matter what happened even if he does not contact you most of the times. Remembering something that you shared, it was love, it was something great for her before as long as it lasted.
So very often this leaves a feeling in a man’s mind or either woman’s mind, often positive emotion, positive experiences. So, very often the feelings of love are still there. There are still lots of affection, if you see the person, your ex most of the times, you are going to be excited about meeting your ex. So most of the times the feelings are still there.
Now when you see, how to know if your ex still likes you beside he often like, liking somebody can have very lots of different meanings, okay. Because liking can mean, I like what you shared in the past. It is does not need that they want to start a relationship again with you. That is one possibility. Another way of liking is really, liking like in the sense of wanting to be together, one on one within the couple. So like can many different things. Like can means us as well, I like you, I have enjoyed interacting with you. Enjoy the friendship, I enjoy the fact that we know each other very well and when we see each other, there is this feeling of comfort that I like.
So like, it can mean so many different things. Very often a guy when like a girl but he likes her in the sense of, he enjoys flirting, he enjoys the connection, he enjoys having a social connection with that person. But, sometimes all that does not lead all the way to wanting to have a committed relationship with that person. Sometimes it is because he is not free. But sometimes it is simply because he sees that there are some reversal of lack of compatibility on certain elements.
So this liking word is very vastly can mean lots of very different things. Now with, How to know if your ex still likes you, this question was coming from a woman, so I am going to answer within that context. If he is searching contact, initiating contact with you and most of the times it means that there is still something leftover, his desire to connect with you.
Again you can mean just the desire for friendship, it is a possibility. The best way to find out if there is a potential for sharing something or not, you could be in the future is to go on a date again together. There is always a possibility, you can always say, Why do we not go for a drink and if ask that, if you invite him for a drink or for a light’s date at a time. And if he says, yes, you can get too most of the times, that yes, there is some form interest.
Now again this interest can mean lots of very different things. The best way to find out exactly how he stands in that and what is his intentions and he desires is to take the very small. Small steps at the time. Before instance you are already chatting on instant messaging, friendsters, you can take the next step and say, why do we not meet for a drink, something like that, okay.
If he says yes to that, it means that there is interest at least for that, at least for friendship, at least for being connected on the physical level this week interacting in that way. Now if, when you meet you can always try to initiate something where you could get further. You can go to these dates or to this meeting in a very sexy way, very flirty, very teasing.
You know, so here it is possibly that, then if you notice that there is attraction, you notice that he starts really in fancying you. Then you can take the next step, you can start establishing for the equal contact that she is needier or eating their heart when you leave and or establish eye contact, and smile making her realize that you are happy to see things, he says, thanks. But ahead, liking can mean so many different things and it is important to find out exactly where, what kind of liking this is and again most of the times when you have been experiencing a relationship with somebody, most of the times you know there are still feelings of affection as to lots of love that is being shared when you meet each other again. So keep that in mind. I hope this helps and then enjoy the dating life more and take care. Bye-bye.
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