How to seduce a guy without being slutty?
Hi, this is Francisco Bujan from Vitalcoaching.com, we are talking about dating successful women and topic of this video is how to seduce the guy without being slutty or obscene. This is the questions is just got and I think it is a next heart warm.
I want to tell you a few things that about seduction and about being sexy. Right, this is really for women. So, there is some full of confusion going on because many women believe that when you are sexy, you need to be slutty or obscene or vulgar, right? But the two concepts or which I guess, I thought it is separate; they had nothing to do with each other. When you are sexy you express the best of yourself, you actually express a very nice, very attractive part of yourself.
The fact that you express your positive quality is your beauty; you already did that within by being sexy. Okay? And sexiness is nothing to do with being vulgar or being slutty. When you play the seduction game with guys you are actually playing your cash, we can play with your beauty, playing with guts, so that guys get attracted to you. So, the next thing that you ask within this question, your say how to make someone wants you without advertising it. How to make someone wants you with out advertising it. And this is another big thing to understand. See that if you want that guys to be attractive to you, you need to play the game and playing the game means that you simply go in dating world by accepting to do what he thinks to be seductive.
If you hide yourself; if you withdraw within a comfortable space, this not going to work so what you have to do is put yourself in a good light. I mean you have to realize also one thing that there is also competition on there. So, women who are going to play the game, who are going to- you will be flirty, be sexy, be doing all this things and this is really what it works with guys. So, why is it that this works with guys? Well, precisely because they see that you are going out of the way to be playing the game precisely and this game has to do a lot with sexual attraction, Okay? You have to be very clear with that.
When you are out there in the dating world with relationship, a lot of what is happening between a man and a woman which creates the chemistry has to do with sexual attraction. Now, you can try to go around but try to avoid that specific challenge but basically this is what it comes to at the end or in the beginning, I mean. Anytime in the dating world, that is a lot about sexual attraction. It does not mean that finds a person that he does not match her, sexual attraction is nothing to do with your personality. It has a lot do with who you are, how you present yourself, how you project yourself. So, if you want to be successful with dating, if you want to be successful with guys in general and be able to seduce guys and have eventually get their response and feel guys attractive to you, what you have to do is very simple, you had to play at the game. Play the dating game which means be sexy, being presenting yourself in a like which simply puts in value who you are. Both are in personality level and also on looks level and the way you present yourself as beauty as well.
So, there is nothing wrong with being sexy, sexy being slutty or too very different things right to be sexy and are very settle with it. So, it is a very positive criterion that can enjoy and that God is really a respond to in a magnetic way. Now, you can say that it is unfair the attitude, it should not be like that. But it is not true I mean being sexy and playing the dating game is something fun once you accept, you go with it. Yes you have open up; yes you have to be yourself and yes to accept the rules of how this works simply. It does not mean that if you do not have the looks you can not, that guys can not be attractive to you, of course not because sexiness has a little bit to do with looks but it does lot to do with how yourself, how confident you are with yourself and how you play with this qualities. So, simply there to go for it, dare to stretch your limit a little bit and think a little bit some ways at that level. If you are with join with your comfort zone, try to see what happens if you take a little bit rescind and **. Take care and have a great day. Bye-bye.
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