Francisco: Hi! This is Francisco Bujan from vitalcoaching.com and today I want to do something a bit different. I am invited a girl who commented to online and to one of my videos and she has a few things that were very interesting to say. Her name is Phoebe, so welcome to this school.
Phoebe: Hi!
Francisco: How are you today, it is sunny over there?
Phoebe: Sunny but cold in England.
Francisco: So, what I want to say is that you are not an expert in relationship you do not have pitchy on these topics. You are just a normal girl who is been dating guys so I mean what is your dating experience do, have you been dating love like you had a lots of relationship with. What is your experience with that?
Phoebe: I tried not to go on that road that lots of relationship. A lot woman a kind bitten twisted after all the relationship they have and I am quite picky about the guys I out with and stuff.
Francisco: Are you in committed relationship right now?
Phoebe: No, not now.
Francisco: So, the reason why I want you to ask to this question is because you mentioned about this guys you know and how really a man makes you feel if he really behaves like a male. That is really the things that was oh guys needs to hear that it was just the command that rather you maybe you wanted to share a few of your experiences because one of the key topics that guys face when anything way did you know.
So, my, the key word of key sentence was if you want to seduce me be a male. That what would you say or the way to come out what you have to say this, can you comment a little bit on, on your experience.
Phoebe: It is basically time because of man are so kind of if you emasculate it is correct word it. Because they still lacking in the maleness. You find this on female but you compensate for the lack of male as they have so kind to do in the beats that they should do.
So, al the things is like, when you with the guy you should be out to just feel like a woman to be honest obviously we have, we all have male and female in us. And you do not want to be like the guy who just dominates you and you just loose your like but if this is a feeling you have, that when you are with the guy, he sought you only for think for him. You have feel for him you have to do all this stuff and it is like you what is you just do your beat as a man and then I can do my beat as a woman and you can just have the violent going on here.
Francisco: It is interesting because what you are saying is that you really have different rules, right. In a dating world this not like with bulls do the same, sometimes man believe that they have to pay for debts, you have to open the door, or the door for the woman. I think control it, is this you are saying I mean the guy has to behave like a man. She was something at us
Phoebe: No it is not. I think when a person as male I think the first saw of him idea that comes most people mind is Macho, you know dominating is not that, is like when a man has his own male confidence. He is exactly who he is. He is not trying to be I do not know. Somebody else is jut being him self. He know has a like normal manners, he treats well likes the woman; he does not like he is not on a mission basically. When you are with him you are just being him self.
And it is not even to do with all like ages will is most to do of like of a person all he takes is a law of all the man and not necessarily like you know like about. Or you on the guys can be really mature when normal. It is just when a man has his own confident, his confidence on who he is as a male and still be able to relate to a female is just he has completely different type f energy as a female. You notice immediately I mean illaudably smacks you between the eyes like wow, what was that? It is a real man.
Francisco: That is interesting can you give me some examples of I mean situations or examples of guy’s behaviors you that you would say that is really a male behavior, what do you mean exactly.
Phoebe: Yes, it is kind of they have respect for you first time and they do not, they even have sort like maybe they have personal expectation as with either what this relationship to get that sort of falls those expectation on you. That is quite happy to let things go along nicely and respect your wishes and I mean even like superficial things like just making a decision that able to a make decision always law of guys cannot do that you always have to think for them and stuff.
And it is just basically how they behave it is quite weird, you have to experiences is the most exactly what I am talking about and every woman will know when they come across the guy like this. But it just basically the male confidence and the way they approach you and treat you not in everything with the guys is like Yes, yes, I got to get this woman…so that type of energy is desperation I think the word is.
Francisco: And that is enough, look we come to an end of this five minutes it goes very fast. I want to keep her like short topics so if you guys are listening to that you can go back to vitalcoaching.com/datingforman.htm, and everything is over there. Okay, take care for now and bye, bye.
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