I kissed my best friend - Now it is awkward

I kissed my best friend - Now it is awkward Hi! This is Francisco Bujan from vital coaching.com. We are talking about dating success for women and the topic for this video is “I kissed my best friend, now it is awkward between us.” What can you do? I mean when you have a close friend with this guy or woman and one day, you get a little bit intimate and then the next time when you see him again, you realize that you are not really into having a relationship together. But you would like to get back to the friendship to where you were before. So what do you do? There is a way to simply do that. It is to start doing again what you used to do before. Having a kiss with somebody is nothing to be ashamed off, okay? It could happen; it could be nice so sometimes it can be a bit awkward. But it is always an experience, which is a very positive one. When you have something like that intimate with somebody, very often people will feel ashamed or will feel some guilt or they will feel that it was a big mistake. But it does not have to be that way obviously you do not have to be ashamed about anything. There is nothing bad about sharing a kiss with a guy. So you go ahead, you did it now realize that you don’t want to do that again and then you simply move on and start relating with this guy in the way you were relating to him before. So relax, if you carry the guilt with you he will feel that. So get the guilt out of your system really get over it and realize that things are preferred to be okay. So start teasing him again, start playing with the way you relate to each other and the way you were doing before and simply forget about the kiss if it is not something that you want to pursue in the future and start relating with him again exactly the way you were before. It is important to have a conversation about it to ask him how he felt about it. So that it might be a good idea you know but it is not 100% necessary. You do not have to rationalize really something that was just an emotional on the moment. And if by any chance you happen to have some feelings for him that you really want to pursue this relationship, and you really took him in more than just a friendship way that is a possibility of course as well. What you can do if this is with your option is to start being much flirty with him. And also to make him realize that you are potential lover in his life. It means that you are going to be more sexy, more challenging, more teasing these kinds of things rather than being really this perfect confident friend who accepts everything from him, these kind of things. When you become the lover you would take a position which is a bit more fighter, a bit more exciting and you project your sexuality or your sexual intensity a bit more towards him. It means that you engage a bit more into this kind of sexual territories, sexual conversations and sexual communication which has to do with precisely being comfortable with these kind of topics or subjects around him. Now again if you want to step out of this kind of intimate zone that you entered last time that you kissed, then simply start relating again to him exactly the way you did before. And remember that if you feel comfortable in his presence and totally confident and realized that there is nothing wrong between the two of you then that is how he thinks with you as well. If you arrived to having a dream with him and you feel really awkward, you do not know what to say, you feel uncomfortable that is what you are going to project as well. So your attitude is really to keep if you are totally cool with it, if you are totally happy and smarty and go back to your true self when you are in his presence and he will probably start projecting the same kind of attitude toward you as well. So, your attitude, the way you stand in that is the key. Be totally confident. Let go of whatever guilt or shame or bad feelings you have about what happened and start relating to him exactly the way you were relating to him before. And again you will strengthen that strength from that attitude of confidence, of trust and totally shameless, there is nothing to be ashamed again and you will get over it as well. Eventually, you can laugh to that that you can result of making little joke about it and these will break the ice again when you both stop it. Okay? I hope this make sense you take care and have a great day, bye-bye.